So CJ is developing more and more as the days go by. Some things Daddy welcomes but others he wish would go away. I know you can not prepare for children but this stubborn attitude has to go. I mean I get so frustrated when I call her name calmly and ask her to stop or to come to where I am she looks at me like she has a problem with my request. Now I do not like to raise my voice, so I have developed a deepened voice to communicate that I mean business. CJ has to learn to listen. As Daddy's father taught him, "Honor your father and mother." OK, he took it from the bible but you get my point. Now people, CJ will stand flat footed stare you in the face and tell you whats on her mind. This usually occurs when she does not want something. She throws it and will not pick it up. Now I know some of her attitude comes from her genes and the other from her being spoiled. So now Daddy has to break this little girl so she does not grow to be a problem. I think she will be fine. Recently she has been made to sit next to Daddy when she does something wrong. She will try to be coddled but Daddy will not let her. She gets the point and then waits for her next opportunity to play.
This breaking will take time, however it must be done. Daddy wants a confident child but not a nasty one. She must learn to listen and to follow directions. It will come. Keep praying folks, it changes things, people, and situations.
