I think everyone who comes in contact with me knows how I feel about the color pink with regard to CJ. I wanted to clear the record on my behalf. I have no problem with the color pink. In fact, I own several different pink shirts myself. Some people believe that Daddy wears the color well too. The issue I have with pink comes from by sociological background. Daddy has issues with gender identification. The color pink is associated with girls, why does that have to be the case. When you walk in a store for shoes they mess a good pair up by accenting with pink. I went to Macy's when she was first born and everything in the store was pastel pink. I mean how about some variety? So when CJ was born I vowed not to push the color pink on her simply because she was a girl. Yes I bought her boy sneakers because they were hot! I bought her a Giants jersey because that is my team. Yes she wears Jordan's and the color blue too. This is not because I want make her a boy but that blue is one of Daddy's favorite colors and CJ and I have been watching football together since she came home from the hospital. Frankly, I feel that some folks need to give it a rest and live a little and brighten their child's wardrobe with splashes of color, like CJ. She wears, brown, black, purple, orange, red, yellow, blue, neon green, and whatever other color clothing items look nice in. It was funny when we picked CJ up from the babysitter today her daughter did CJ's hair. She pointed put that she put a pink bow in her hair but she did have the color purple for me. I was just happy her hair was done and it looked cute. My rule has always been, CJ will wear whatever anyone purchases for her but Daddy will not buy her anything the color pink. OK, her soccer ball has pink in it but that is for her athletic enrichment.
So there you have it people, live and direct from the horses mouth. You probably think I need prayer right about now so pray for me. Prayer changes things people, and situations. I almost forgot CJ now attempts to say thank you when you hand her something. My Princess is balancing her rough demeanor and her daintiness quite well.
NOT TO CJ: The same person who everyone scolds for buying you a football jersey and Kobe Bryant sneakers need to realize that I am the one that picks out dresses and jewelry for you too! Love you baby, whatever makes you happy!
