The Mohawk

Ok, so I get home from work and the night's agenda was to make two stops to prepare everyone for tomorrow and come home. So we get through the first stop without incident and then we get to stop number two. My daughter (so you know I am not reporting on anything I view as good since I just called her my daughter) is a social butterfly. No matter where she is, she seems to feel the need to communicate with anyone who will listen. On the way into Walmart she began to converse with this woman who spoke very poor English. I turned and smiled but kept pushing the cart. Then we are in an aisle and she reaches out and touches this lady and said, "Hi!" I am glad the lady was not rude and she replied. I apologized for my kid touching her and kept it moving.

The previous actions were not what turned my stomach. While in the baby aisle this kid who looked about two or three is rolled into CJ's vision. He told his mother, "That there goes another baby girl." So that meant he was looking, that is problem number one. The second problem comes when CJ initiates a 2 minute conversation with this kid. All the while I am looking at the kid shaking my head and thinking that this is what I have to look forward to. The final strike was that the kid at two or three had a Mohawk! I was like, "Of all the little boys to converse with, you choose the biker boy." I said I guess I will continue in my quest to marry her off because at one year old, she is looking at the wrong types already, lol. I can see it now. "Daddy, meet Ox, Ox meet my Daddy." I would respond, "Boy what is your name and where is the rest of your hair?"

I am just playing people. Ok bits may be true but I was sick to my stomach at what I saw. Why does she have to be so social? So you all know what the prayer will be tonight so start sending them up. Daddy needs help and we all know that prayer, that changes people, things, and situations can handle that! Trust I will chat with my little socialite. Together we will grow to find well-groomed young men. Twenty-five years from now, lol!

NOTE TO CJ: PLEASE NO MOHAWKS!

Only 5 Minutes

So this will be quick. I left the house this morning and CJ was asleep. I even slept later because I knew I would be at work late tonight and she did not budge. So I said a prayer, kissed her and Mommy, and went about my business.

I did not even get a chance to call home today due to my busy schedule at work. I did manage to read a text Mommy sent which prompted me to call home briefly but I had to speak quick because I was off to another function.

When I returned home after making a few stops for CJ, a baby has to have milk and pampers, I saw that she was still awake. She was in the crib though. So I asked Mommy if she would mind (terribly) me picking her up. Between her teeth, she said no(I know she wanted to tell me Yes!). So I picked her up and kissed and hugged her. She did not even let off a smile. Mommy said it was a rough day and I think she was too tired to respond in her normal CJ way.

So I gave her back to Mommy and completed all my nightly duties before laying down. Prayerfully we get more than 5 minutes together tomorrow. I missed her today and I was around a lot of people who asked about her which always makes it worse. So as I finish up, pray my headache goes away, and pray for CJ and Daddy to get more father/daughter time. We all know prayer changes things, people, and situations.

One Step At A Time

Well I am glad to report that Princess CJ took her first step today. Now you must know it was just one step and then she dropped to crawl but it was a step nonetheless. So that is one small step for CJ and notice to the world to watch out because a freight train is about to pull off.

Today we woke up a little later than usual for a Saturday. I prepared CJ and well balanced meal. Waffles, fruit, and milk was the her morning feast. We then spent the rest of the day hanging out. Well Daddy attempted to clean up a little and CJ decided that she would go behind them and mess everything Daddy had done up. Daddy spent a lot of time saying, "Stay out the trash CJ, move form over there, and I'm gonna hurt you little girl!" It was a back and forth chess match and both of us were up for the challenge.

Daddy went to spend some time with his co-workers this evening so when he left home he told CJ that he did not want her to see him tonight. that translates into, CJ, you better be sleep when I get home. When I returned home a short while ago she indeed was sleep but she left her trail of terror. I saw Mommy and asked if she lost the fight tonight and she informed me that she gave up. I could kick that girls butt for messing up all the laundry I folded today. Mark this day in history. CJ WILL fold all this laundry that she mess up when she is older and I mean that wholeheartedly. She will learn that when you mess up you clean up and I will recall this day to her when she is old enough to recollect.

So for now it is time to call it a day and get close to the bed. It has been a great day granted by GOD! So you all remember to pray tonight. We all know that prayer changes things, people, and situations. I do not know about you but I can put a prayer up that fits all three areas. Be blessed!

NOTE TO CJ: With regard to personal space, always know you want people to draw the line. If they get to close or invade your space handle them properly. Today the living room was Daddy's space. You invaded it by messing it up, so now we have to talk about how Daddy will handle you properly. It will be in a loving manner, different from how you will handle others but you will have to be dealt with accordingly. I love you Princess!

The Week In Review

Short work week. Long day. Will dollow up with you in the AM.

Cut and Dry

Today was a basic day for CJ and Daddy. I woke up and prepared for work. Before I departed I paused to pray with my girls as they slept. I called home once to see how CJ's day was going and the report was good. When I came home I greeted CJ and Mommy and then began dinner. The one conclusion Mommy and I made today was that CJ is a nut!

So today was cut and dry. I am getting ready for bed and CJ is sleep. You all remember to pray, prayer changes things, people,and situations. Until tomorrow goodnight.

CJ, Meet Fork and Spoon

So today Daddy introduced CJ to a fork and spoon. We decided to work with the spoon first. So I handed her the spoon and she explored it for a bit. I will add that I did demonstrate what she should do with the utensil first. So she took the spoon and at least put it in her plate. At least she got that part straight, it was down hill from there. CJ decided that her hands were much better to use. So Daddy decided to feed her a few spoon fulls to show her again. After that Daddy decided that if she just held the spoon it would be an accomplishment. She did manage to get two attempts in the mouth. Mommy and Daddy applauded her efforts.

The first day back to work was rough. Daddy really desired to be home. He made it through the day and is already set for the remainder of the week. When I arrived home today she smiled and made her way to me. She wanted to be held so of course her Daddy obliged. We sat for a few then we resumed our cat and mouse game from yesterday.

All in all it was a good day and a great evening since I was with my Princess. You all continue to pray for us as we transition back into the old routine. This time as we transition it is a little different because CJ is more cognisant of the fact that she is being left so we will see how it all goes. We all know prayer changes things, people, and situations. It also makes things right and gives us serenity. Until next time you all have a great evening.

Back To Work

I am sitting here making myself get geared up for work. I am going to miss relaxation a whole lot. I am going to miss waking up with CJ and feeding her. The fussing with her as she gets into everything she is not supposed to get into. I am going to miss rushing Mommy to get ready so we can go out and hang during the day. I am going to miss sleeping late and then deciding that doing that constitutes a great day!

Unfortunately for Daddy he must leave the nest and get back to the wild air out there. He knew it would be rough but not this rough. I spoke with CJ briefly tonight and told her that I would see her when I arrived home from work. Now I have to go throughout the day wondering if and when I come home she will walk to me. I do not want Mommy to call me either. I want to experience it for myself. I have a feeling it will happen soon so I am anxious. I want to be here but I have a feeling that I will see the second attempt at it.

Today CJ and I fussed a lot. We are really trying to get her to know boundaries and that means discipline. We all know that no King wants to reprimand his Princess but we have to. She looks up at me and then pouts sometimes but other times she is not bothered at all for some reason and continues to do what she was doing. I will get that straight sooner than later.

So I will leave her to fuss with her mother and I will come home and save the day! Until next time folks, you all remember to pray (and please pray that I have a smooth transition back into the work world because I am really uneasy about the whole thing). We know prayer changes things, people, and situations!