The creator of the pacifier is getting no play in my house. C.J. has found her thumb and she likes it. for the past few weeks she has been gnawing at her hand. However as of late it is her right thumb. This is is in line with her development but it drives mommy and daddy crazy. Mommy says it is hereditary because she sucked her thumb as a child. I think she is just being stubborn.
Tonight I decided to play with her so I pretended to eat her hand. Of course it was the one that she likes to put in her mouth. It was funny I had her entire hand in my mouth. She tugged at it for a bit to try to get it out but I would not let go. Finally she just went to the other hand but as soon as daddy let it go she quickly switched to her more desired right thumb. It has got so bad that when i looked in the crib this morning her thumb was fixed in her mouth.
So of course I had o read up to see why babies suck their thumbs and the research was positive. They said let her be and she will grow out of it. I hope she does because daddy does not want to get her braces to fix an overbite. Well now that my thumb sucking princess is sleep so is daddy. Until next time be sure to pray because prayer changes things.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Let The Church Say Amen
Well today C.J. went to church! It was a long time coming if I might say so myself. She was dressed up and cloaked in a nice red coat which made her smile shine. Babies in church are always a big hit but we made sure to limit the fuss about and around her. We still have to be careful of germs and sanitation.
The songs were sung, the prayers were prayed and the word came forth and C.J. actually remained awake for most of it. I could hear her making noise when I would get up to speak. Once I began my sermon all was shut out because I am focused 100% on listening to the Lord.
After service she was greeted by many well wishes who have been praying for her since she was born. C.J. would smile at some but remain neutral with others. Maybe this is the beginning of her determining who she will and will not deal with. She might be onto something and I may need to talk to her to see if I should "x" some people from my lists, lol.
Finally it was off to Great-Grandma's to have dinner. Now everyone wants C.J. to get a taste of some real food but she has a little more time to wait. Today she shared the house with her cousins, three others were there. It was fun to see her interact even just for a little bit with them all. The work week begins tomorrow. Back to the hustle and bustle that is our everyday lives but as the message reminded us today, always take a timeout if needed to make sure you are in the will of God. You all remember to pray because prayer changes things!
The songs were sung, the prayers were prayed and the word came forth and C.J. actually remained awake for most of it. I could hear her making noise when I would get up to speak. Once I began my sermon all was shut out because I am focused 100% on listening to the Lord.
After service she was greeted by many well wishes who have been praying for her since she was born. C.J. would smile at some but remain neutral with others. Maybe this is the beginning of her determining who she will and will not deal with. She might be onto something and I may need to talk to her to see if I should "x" some people from my lists, lol.
Finally it was off to Great-Grandma's to have dinner. Now everyone wants C.J. to get a taste of some real food but she has a little more time to wait. Today she shared the house with her cousins, three others were there. It was fun to see her interact even just for a little bit with them all. The work week begins tomorrow. Back to the hustle and bustle that is our everyday lives but as the message reminded us today, always take a timeout if needed to make sure you are in the will of God. You all remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Getting Ready
So C.J. is going to Daddy's church tomorrow! This will be the first time to Mt. Sinai and her first time hearing her daddy proclaim the gospel. Last week she went to hear her grandfather preach. I was told that she sat well so I am hoping that tomorrow will be identical.
The preparation was easier than I thought. Since C.J. is my daughter you know Daddy wants her to be coordinated at all times. So she will dawn red. A good color for church too...the blood of Jesus! Hopefully we can get through the day without much fuss. A lot of folks want to see her but I really do not want her to be some kind of exhibit.
So tonight I needed to go into solitude to get the final clearance from the man upstairs. He provides the words I just have to open my mouth and let them out. Mommy and C.J. moved their nightly ritual so I could be comfortable and have the serenity I needed.
In the future I hope to have a room in my house dedicated for sermon preparation. This will be different from the "Man Room" which will be a den of fun for me and painted black. I have prepared to preach twice in her close to four months of life, and both times C.J. has never interrupted nor made things difficult. I thank God for that because I know it is Him working through her that allows his word to come right to his vessel.
So I will not be long tonight. I want to chill and enjoy some quiet time with the Mrs., again only because God has made it possible. So you all pray for me as you pray tonight and remember that prayer changes things.
C.J., thank you for letting God use you to create the solace that your daddy needed tonight. I appreciate it very much and love you.
The preparation was easier than I thought. Since C.J. is my daughter you know Daddy wants her to be coordinated at all times. So she will dawn red. A good color for church too...the blood of Jesus! Hopefully we can get through the day without much fuss. A lot of folks want to see her but I really do not want her to be some kind of exhibit.
So tonight I needed to go into solitude to get the final clearance from the man upstairs. He provides the words I just have to open my mouth and let them out. Mommy and C.J. moved their nightly ritual so I could be comfortable and have the serenity I needed.
In the future I hope to have a room in my house dedicated for sermon preparation. This will be different from the "Man Room" which will be a den of fun for me and painted black. I have prepared to preach twice in her close to four months of life, and both times C.J. has never interrupted nor made things difficult. I thank God for that because I know it is Him working through her that allows his word to come right to his vessel.
So I will not be long tonight. I want to chill and enjoy some quiet time with the Mrs., again only because God has made it possible. So you all pray for me as you pray tonight and remember that prayer changes things.
C.J., thank you for letting God use you to create the solace that your daddy needed tonight. I appreciate it very much and love you.
Friday, November 27, 2009
C.J. "The Boss Lady"
First I would like to apologize for the very quick post on yesterday. After a hearty meal and disappointing football by my Blew Crew I fell asleep by 10PM. When I woke up I had to keep my daily sequence up so I gave just a small note and went right back to bed. So again, I apologize.
So that brings me to today. A pre-arranged bum day here in the Johnson household. I for one have never been a fan of running out at all times of morning on this poorly titled day looking for bargains that really are not there. It is sad to see that my fellow Americans have allowed themselves to be brainwashed into acting as if they are just not satisfied unless they spend money on the day after Thanksgiving. I will post on another location in detail about how I feel regarding that topic soon, let me get back to my child C.J. Johnson.
Today I think she woke up with her mind set to be the boss of the house. I should have known something was up when she slept later than us this morning. So daddy got up to begin making breakfast and mommy fed C.J. when she was all done she came to sit and watch her educational television for the day. The only problem was that C.J. did not want top be bothered with the Sid the Science Kid today. Instead she wanted to make all sorts of noise looking for attention. Now folks she was not crying or anything but it was the kind of noise that said, "I really do not care what your doing nor am I interested. What I want for someone to do is stop what they are doing and come talk to C.J." Now most of the time we both would come running but we both knew she was faking. Besides, how could I keep an eye out on the grits, bacon, apples, eggs and biscuits if I had to talk to C.J.? Not possible but I had to make it possible because C.J. was not going to quit today. it was her way or a lot of noise and no one would have peace.
We then move on to the afternoon. C.J. "The Boss Lady" wanted to be held and walked around. Never mind that we were all enjoying some television together as a family. She let out her shrieks and tearless cries so daddy picked her up. The only thing is that she did not stop until I got up and proceeded to walk around with her. Soon after she would take a comforting deep breath then drop her head on my shoulder. I would try to sneak a seat but she would let the rockets red glare blast again. She wanted to be in charge and daddy better had recognized and follow suit accordingly. Once she was settled the boss decided to take a nap only for a minute though.
Today was interesting. It presented a scenario that will probably play out a lot when C.J. as she continues to develop. All three of us are stubborn and we want our way. Daddy and C.J. see eye to eye until she begins to want to play unfairly. Mommy is stern and will always make sure her thoughts are not trampled over by the newly formed tag team. We will see how this all plays out. Daddy is the king and I and not turning the kingdom into a matriarchy because C.J. says so!
Remember to pray because prayer changes things and in this instance I don't know if daddy or C.J. needs it more, lol!
So that brings me to today. A pre-arranged bum day here in the Johnson household. I for one have never been a fan of running out at all times of morning on this poorly titled day looking for bargains that really are not there. It is sad to see that my fellow Americans have allowed themselves to be brainwashed into acting as if they are just not satisfied unless they spend money on the day after Thanksgiving. I will post on another location in detail about how I feel regarding that topic soon, let me get back to my child C.J. Johnson.
Today I think she woke up with her mind set to be the boss of the house. I should have known something was up when she slept later than us this morning. So daddy got up to begin making breakfast and mommy fed C.J. when she was all done she came to sit and watch her educational television for the day. The only problem was that C.J. did not want top be bothered with the Sid the Science Kid today. Instead she wanted to make all sorts of noise looking for attention. Now folks she was not crying or anything but it was the kind of noise that said, "I really do not care what your doing nor am I interested. What I want for someone to do is stop what they are doing and come talk to C.J." Now most of the time we both would come running but we both knew she was faking. Besides, how could I keep an eye out on the grits, bacon, apples, eggs and biscuits if I had to talk to C.J.? Not possible but I had to make it possible because C.J. was not going to quit today. it was her way or a lot of noise and no one would have peace.
We then move on to the afternoon. C.J. "The Boss Lady" wanted to be held and walked around. Never mind that we were all enjoying some television together as a family. She let out her shrieks and tearless cries so daddy picked her up. The only thing is that she did not stop until I got up and proceeded to walk around with her. Soon after she would take a comforting deep breath then drop her head on my shoulder. I would try to sneak a seat but she would let the rockets red glare blast again. She wanted to be in charge and daddy better had recognized and follow suit accordingly. Once she was settled the boss decided to take a nap only for a minute though.
Today was interesting. It presented a scenario that will probably play out a lot when C.J. as she continues to develop. All three of us are stubborn and we want our way. Daddy and C.J. see eye to eye until she begins to want to play unfairly. Mommy is stern and will always make sure her thoughts are not trampled over by the newly formed tag team. We will see how this all plays out. Daddy is the king and I and not turning the kingdom into a matriarchy because C.J. says so!
Remember to pray because prayer changes things and in this instance I don't know if daddy or C.J. needs it more, lol!
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Turkey Day
The slogan I will teach C.J. is that everyday is a day of Thanksgiving. God is in the blessing business daily so I will never limit myself to observe a day called thanksgiving. C.J. will be taught to do it daily and the other folks in the world with just have to catch up.
Think about that and remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Think about that and remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Daddy Failed, LOL!
Well we all know by now that mommy and C.J. have this night-time ritual that is repeated nightly. Well tonight, being the night before Thanksgiving, mommy wanted to get the house straight which meant that daddy was left to get C.J. to bed. Do not laugh at me but you all know that spells disaster from the start. Mommy and daddy just do things way differently.
So of course I did not change her clothes from what she had on. I chose not to giver her a bath. Going in the room and making it dark was not necessary for daddy and I did not lay her down on my chest. I laid her in her crib and turned the mobile on, that did not work. All I heard was giggling and when I looked in on her she had a huge grin on her face.
Next I brought her out of the room and put her in her chair. I thought she would rock herself to sleep but instead she started to get more and more excited while rocking herself. I said I will take a page out of mommy's book and decided to take her back in the room and sit in the dark.
C.J. I guess wanted to play around today because she started to kick and rock and grab and twist until I began to stare at her. The more stern the stare the it seems the brighter her smile got and the wider her eyes became. I guess mommy had enough because the next think I know she is standing over me laughing and taking her for a bath.
Now folks I know how to deal with kids, really I do. C.J. is just my little princes and she does get her way with daddy from time to time. I will have to work on this bedtime thing. Because if she stays up to late the next day will be hell for us all.
So I failed today. this is the first "F" I have received in a long time. So now I have to reassess what I do and come up with a new game plan. Funny thing is mommy failed too because C.J. is currently up making noise when she thought she was down, lol! You all pray for us now because prayer changes things!
So of course I did not change her clothes from what she had on. I chose not to giver her a bath. Going in the room and making it dark was not necessary for daddy and I did not lay her down on my chest. I laid her in her crib and turned the mobile on, that did not work. All I heard was giggling and when I looked in on her she had a huge grin on her face.
Next I brought her out of the room and put her in her chair. I thought she would rock herself to sleep but instead she started to get more and more excited while rocking herself. I said I will take a page out of mommy's book and decided to take her back in the room and sit in the dark.
C.J. I guess wanted to play around today because she started to kick and rock and grab and twist until I began to stare at her. The more stern the stare the it seems the brighter her smile got and the wider her eyes became. I guess mommy had enough because the next think I know she is standing over me laughing and taking her for a bath.
Now folks I know how to deal with kids, really I do. C.J. is just my little princes and she does get her way with daddy from time to time. I will have to work on this bedtime thing. Because if she stays up to late the next day will be hell for us all.
So I failed today. this is the first "F" I have received in a long time. So now I have to reassess what I do and come up with a new game plan. Funny thing is mommy failed too because C.J. is currently up making noise when she thought she was down, lol! You all pray for us now because prayer changes things!
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Home On The Range
When I think of home I see place where love is over flowing. That is the sentiment I want C.J. to have when she thinks of home from now to forever. We arrived home fairly early today. C.J. had the opportunity to watch some television, eat and catch some football with dad. the game was rather boring so daddy decided to switch to SVU. The feel in the house was relaxed. We ate dinner. C.J. and I practiced some singing scales and I played Floetry so she could hear what real music sounded like.
I began to think of what a home was. Some may say a place. I beg to differ and I will say that it is a feeling. You have to feel at home. A home is when you are at peace. The distractions from the outside world are not allowed. A home is where loves abides and excitement fills the hearts of all. A home is where you find refuge from a bad day and serenity from the chaos that is the world. A home is where prayer is number one on the agenda and God is the head.
Their was a time in my life when I would keep myself busy not to go home. However once I was married the urge to be home grew and now that I am a daddy home is where I want to be 24/7. I hurry home from work, do not go out as much and make sure that every night is ended and began at home. I pray that home continues to develop into a haven of hope and layer of love and a palace of prayer. that way it will be a model home. A home that C.J. will be nurtured and grow into a fascinating young woman and more importantly a home that God is pleased with.
Every night C.J. is read to, prayed with, comforted and kissed. When I look down in that crib and see her sleeping it brings a smile to my face. I smile because another day in our home is complete and now God will watch over us as we slumber.
As I go may homes be developed in your lives may the be blessed and highly favored. Until next time always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
I began to think of what a home was. Some may say a place. I beg to differ and I will say that it is a feeling. You have to feel at home. A home is when you are at peace. The distractions from the outside world are not allowed. A home is where loves abides and excitement fills the hearts of all. A home is where you find refuge from a bad day and serenity from the chaos that is the world. A home is where prayer is number one on the agenda and God is the head.
Their was a time in my life when I would keep myself busy not to go home. However once I was married the urge to be home grew and now that I am a daddy home is where I want to be 24/7. I hurry home from work, do not go out as much and make sure that every night is ended and began at home. I pray that home continues to develop into a haven of hope and layer of love and a palace of prayer. that way it will be a model home. A home that C.J. will be nurtured and grow into a fascinating young woman and more importantly a home that God is pleased with.
Every night C.J. is read to, prayed with, comforted and kissed. When I look down in that crib and see her sleeping it brings a smile to my face. I smile because another day in our home is complete and now God will watch over us as we slumber.
As I go may homes be developed in your lives may the be blessed and highly favored. Until next time always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Monday, November 23, 2009
Sing A Song
My favorite band of all time is Earth, Wind and Fire. They have a song titled "Sing A Song" that I love to play all the time. Something about me that some may no and others do not is that I love to sing. I come from a family that enjoys singing. So of course I am going to expose my little girl to music. Country music, club music, techno music, R&B music, rap music, neo-soul music, gospel music, worship music, jazz music, band music, classical music, you name it I will play it.
Music does a lot for a person. It can help calm them down. It can help turn a bad day into a great one. It can prepare you for worship. It can also tell stories. Music is universal, it touches every ones soul.
So yesterday and today I decided to sing with C.J. i am talking a full blown one on one jam session. Now we did not get past the warm up stage but we are well on our way. I have started with a simple "ah". "Ah" for a short time "ah" for a long time. I would say sing it and then C.J. would look at her daddy and laugh. She then would open her mouth but nothing would come out. I saw her trying and I know I had a connection so I kept on demonstrating and by the tenth time she did it! C.J. did exactly what I wanted. I celebrated her success and told her to make sure she practiced at the baby sitter today.
Music is what gets me through the day sometimes and already C.J. and I have our best times listening to music. Our favorite song to listen to and dance to is "Your Joy" by Chrisette Michele. We also jam to "Boogie Wonderland" by Earth, Wind and Fire. When we are together listening to music are hearts are in sync. C.J. in my arm, me looking at her and her looking at me. It is a magical moment only the two of us will ever be able to share or explain. So C.J.;
When you feel down and out
Sing a song, it'll make your day
Here's a time to shout
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Sometimes it's hard to care
Sing a song, it'll make your day
A smile so hard to bear
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Bring your heart to believing
Sing a song, it'll make your day
Life ain't about no retrieving
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Give yourself what you need
Sing a song, it'll make your day
Smile, smile smile and believe
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Love you baby!
Until next time good people, always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Music does a lot for a person. It can help calm them down. It can help turn a bad day into a great one. It can prepare you for worship. It can also tell stories. Music is universal, it touches every ones soul.
So yesterday and today I decided to sing with C.J. i am talking a full blown one on one jam session. Now we did not get past the warm up stage but we are well on our way. I have started with a simple "ah". "Ah" for a short time "ah" for a long time. I would say sing it and then C.J. would look at her daddy and laugh. She then would open her mouth but nothing would come out. I saw her trying and I know I had a connection so I kept on demonstrating and by the tenth time she did it! C.J. did exactly what I wanted. I celebrated her success and told her to make sure she practiced at the baby sitter today.
Music is what gets me through the day sometimes and already C.J. and I have our best times listening to music. Our favorite song to listen to and dance to is "Your Joy" by Chrisette Michele. We also jam to "Boogie Wonderland" by Earth, Wind and Fire. When we are together listening to music are hearts are in sync. C.J. in my arm, me looking at her and her looking at me. It is a magical moment only the two of us will ever be able to share or explain. So C.J.;
When you feel down and out
Sing a song, it'll make your day
Here's a time to shout
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Sometimes it's hard to care
Sing a song, it'll make your day
A smile so hard to bear
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Bring your heart to believing
Sing a song, it'll make your day
Life ain't about no retrieving
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Give yourself what you need
Sing a song, it'll make your day
Smile, smile smile and believe
Sing a song, it'll make a way
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Singasong
Love you baby!
Until next time good people, always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Let The Church Say Amen!
Well, today was the first day we worshiped as a family. This morning Mommy and C.J. went to Mommy's church. This afternoon we went to see C.J.#1 be dedicated as a family, and it was a great experience. The message was about humbling ourselves so we can make it into the kingdom. What a great feeling it was to be with C.J. in the worship atmosphere! This is important because both Mommy and Daddy love the Lord and C.J. prays daily with us. She prays with Mommy daily, and with Daddy daily, and with both in our morning family prayer. I will admit we have to get better with the nighttime prayer as a family. Having exposure to worship now will prayerfully help C.J. understand that Jesus is her Lord and Savior and worthy of all her praise.
C.J. was good in church too, not a peep out of her during the entire service. This is because I know my baby was attentive to the word God sent for her on today. You may think I am nuts but God speaks to us all.
How interesting that C.J., the preacher's kid, was at two different worship services her first day out to church. It was a long day for us all but we made it through by the grace of God. Besides I woke up this morning with my mind stayed on Jesus and WORSHIP was my focus! So the two were easy because I was in WORSHIP mode. God has been too great for me not want to offer up everything I have unto Him.
C.J. I want you to know that Jesus is a gift to you from God. Daddy and Mommy will take you to church with them until you are old enough to make the decision to accept the gift God have offered you. Daddy accepted the gift for himself and Mommy for herself. However just because we both accepted the gift, it does nothing for you. You must understand that God loves C.J. and has a plan for C.J.'s life. We will pray with you as a family everyday. However, even though we pray together, there will come a day where you will need to communicate with God for yourself.
I have decided while writing that it is time to go get C.J. a bible so when she is ready to explore reading, the bible is a book that is available to her. Now we have many bibles in the house but they belong mostly to Daddy, although Mommy's collection is not too shabby. However C.J. needs a children's bible and I am going to have it for her to open as we celebrate the birth of Christ.
Well it has been a magnificent day in the Lord! I hope you all had the chance to WORSHIP and give him praise. Until tomorrow, always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
C.J. was good in church too, not a peep out of her during the entire service. This is because I know my baby was attentive to the word God sent for her on today. You may think I am nuts but God speaks to us all.
How interesting that C.J., the preacher's kid, was at two different worship services her first day out to church. It was a long day for us all but we made it through by the grace of God. Besides I woke up this morning with my mind stayed on Jesus and WORSHIP was my focus! So the two were easy because I was in WORSHIP mode. God has been too great for me not want to offer up everything I have unto Him.
C.J. I want you to know that Jesus is a gift to you from God. Daddy and Mommy will take you to church with them until you are old enough to make the decision to accept the gift God have offered you. Daddy accepted the gift for himself and Mommy for herself. However just because we both accepted the gift, it does nothing for you. You must understand that God loves C.J. and has a plan for C.J.'s life. We will pray with you as a family everyday. However, even though we pray together, there will come a day where you will need to communicate with God for yourself.
I have decided while writing that it is time to go get C.J. a bible so when she is ready to explore reading, the bible is a book that is available to her. Now we have many bibles in the house but they belong mostly to Daddy, although Mommy's collection is not too shabby. However C.J. needs a children's bible and I am going to have it for her to open as we celebrate the birth of Christ.
Well it has been a magnificent day in the Lord! I hope you all had the chance to WORSHIP and give him praise. Until tomorrow, always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Spazzing Out!
If I were to write the following words, "After a long day at work," you could probably fill in the blank. All I wanted to do was come home and chill with my ladies. Before I left I explained to Shatema how I now had two women, C.J and Shatema. I compared how C.J. does everything to get my attention and how she could do some things to get it as well. Now her list contained a few items that would catapult her back to the pole position instead of the neck-and-neck tie she is in with C.J.
Anyway, I come home after hanging out a bit with my colleagues and all is well. Mommy is quiet, C.J. is quiet and I was able to come in and turn right to the football games of the night. (Sidebar, this is when I saw that Notre Dame loss to UCONN and I came to the conclusion that Charlie Wiess has to go). So I get comfortable and I play with C.J. for a bit. Mommy went to drop a load of laundry in, and while she was gone, it happened.
All of a sudden C.J. starts balling and her basketball was nowhere near her. Tears ran down her cheek. She yelled and screamed (and there is a difference) at the top of her lungs. I had to close the windows so no one thought she was being harmed. I did not know what she wanted. I picked her up and walked around with her, she cried. I turned some music on, and she cried some more. I rocked her, and she cried. I gave her her pacifier, and she cried louder and spit it out. She was out of control.
Now you already know I do not like seeing my girl like this. I do not get excited...I just continue trying to soothe her. She would stop for a bit and then start back up again, lol! Finally I am like Mommy, could she be hungry? Lo and behold a little milk did the trick. Now after we settled everything you know I told that little girl that she better not act like that again. Yelling and screaming like she did not just eat a hour and a half earlier.
This little temper I am seeing is gonna be something else. She is a little pistol when she wants her way. I guess she has a little bit of her dad in her, just a little bit. I will work on the "my way or the highway" syndrome early so she might fair a little better. We do not want her just spazzing out on people when they upset her. I will tell you all this now, though. Sometimes a quick spazz out might be needed to put someone in their place, but I will demonstrate to her how you do it without batting an eye or raising your voice so the victim looks like the one who is crazy. C.J.'s daddy is a professional at that.
Tomorrow is WORSHIP day with the believers. I get my WORSHIP on everyday so I am going to go for now. Until the next time, you all remember to pray because prayer changes things. Peace and blessings to you and yours!
Anyway, I come home after hanging out a bit with my colleagues and all is well. Mommy is quiet, C.J. is quiet and I was able to come in and turn right to the football games of the night. (Sidebar, this is when I saw that Notre Dame loss to UCONN and I came to the conclusion that Charlie Wiess has to go). So I get comfortable and I play with C.J. for a bit. Mommy went to drop a load of laundry in, and while she was gone, it happened.
All of a sudden C.J. starts balling and her basketball was nowhere near her. Tears ran down her cheek. She yelled and screamed (and there is a difference) at the top of her lungs. I had to close the windows so no one thought she was being harmed. I did not know what she wanted. I picked her up and walked around with her, she cried. I turned some music on, and she cried some more. I rocked her, and she cried. I gave her her pacifier, and she cried louder and spit it out. She was out of control.
Now you already know I do not like seeing my girl like this. I do not get excited...I just continue trying to soothe her. She would stop for a bit and then start back up again, lol! Finally I am like Mommy, could she be hungry? Lo and behold a little milk did the trick. Now after we settled everything you know I told that little girl that she better not act like that again. Yelling and screaming like she did not just eat a hour and a half earlier.
This little temper I am seeing is gonna be something else. She is a little pistol when she wants her way. I guess she has a little bit of her dad in her, just a little bit. I will work on the "my way or the highway" syndrome early so she might fair a little better. We do not want her just spazzing out on people when they upset her. I will tell you all this now, though. Sometimes a quick spazz out might be needed to put someone in their place, but I will demonstrate to her how you do it without batting an eye or raising your voice so the victim looks like the one who is crazy. C.J.'s daddy is a professional at that.
Tomorrow is WORSHIP day with the believers. I get my WORSHIP on everyday so I am going to go for now. Until the next time, you all remember to pray because prayer changes things. Peace and blessings to you and yours!
Friday, November 20, 2009
Laying the Foundation
Tonight is another one where I will provide C.J. with some helpful; hints from some pretty on point people.
#1. And when you discover what you will be in your life, set out to do it as if God Almighty called you at this particular moment in history to do it. don't just set out to do a good job. Set out to do such a good job that the living, the dead or the unborn couldn't do it any better.
If it falls your lot to be a street sweeper, sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures, sweep streets like Beethoven composed music, sweep streets like Leontyne Price sings before the Metropolitan Opera. Sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will have to pause and say: Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well. If you can't be a pine at the top of the hill, be a shrub in the valley. Be be the best little shrub on the side of the hill.
Be a bush if you can't be a tree. If you can't be a highway, just be a trail. If you can't be a sun, be a star. For it isn't by size that you win or fail. Be the best of whatever you are. Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
#2. "We declare our right on this earth...to be a human being, to be respected as a human being, to be given the rights of a human being in this society, on this earth, in this day, which we intend to bring into existence by any means necessary."
"Our objective is complete freedom, justice and equality by any means necessary."
"The day that the black man takes an uncompromising step and realizes that he's within his rights, when his own freedom is being jeopardized, to use any means necessary to bring about his freedom or put a halt to that injustice, I don't think he'll be by himself." Malcolm X.
#3. Ain't I A Woman?
by Sojourner Truth
Women's Rights & African-American Rights Pioneer
Delivered To The Women's Convention In Akron, Ohio - December, 1851
Well, children, where there is so much racket there must be something out of kilter. I think that 'twixt the negroes of the South and the women at the North, all talking about rights, the white men will be in a fix pretty soon. But what's all this here talking about?
That man over there says that women need to be helped into carriages, and lifted over ditches, and to have the best place everywhere. Nobody ever helps me into carriages, or over mud-puddles, or gives me any best place! And ain't I a woman? Look at me! Look at my arm! I have ploughed and planted, and gathered into barns, and no man could head me! And ain't I a woman? I could work as much and eat as much as a man - when I could get it - and bear the lash as well! And ain't I a woman? I have borne thirteen children, and seen most all sold off to slavery, and when I cried out with my mother's grief, none but Jesus heard me! And ain't I a woman?
Then they talk about this thing in the head; what's this they call it? [member of audience whispers, "intellect"] That's it, honey. What's that got to do with women's rights or negroes' rights? If my cup won't hold but a pint, and yours holds a quart, wouldn't you be mean not to let me have my little half measure full?
Then that little man in black there, he says women can't have as much rights as men, 'cause Christ wasn't a woman! Where did your Christ come from? Where did your Christ come from? From God and a woman! Man had nothing to do with Him.
If the first woman God ever made was strong enough to turn the world upside down all alone, these women together ought to be able to turn it back , and get it right side up again! And now they is asking to do it, the men better let them.
Obliged to you for hearing me, and now old Sojourner ain't got nothing more to say.
So C.J. one day you will read this and wonder to yourself, why did daddy capture these words for me." I am going to save you the mystery and give you a little insight. Daddy wants you be be a strong young woman, firm in your position. Daddy wants you to have pride in all you do, to be focused and dedicated to the causes you deem as important in your life. Finally the Malcolm X words. Sometime you will have to just go out there and take things you want. This is not meant in a negative way. It simply means that sometimes you will have to be assertive and aggressive to get what ans where you want.
To all my readers, I am raising a well balanced young woman so when I go off on tangents please understand why! Until next time always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
#1. And when you discover what you will be in your life, set out to do it as if God Almighty called you at this particular moment in history to do it. don't just set out to do a good job. Set out to do such a good job that the living, the dead or the unborn couldn't do it any better.
If it falls your lot to be a street sweeper, sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures, sweep streets like Beethoven composed music, sweep streets like Leontyne Price sings before the Metropolitan Opera. Sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will have to pause and say: Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well. If you can't be a pine at the top of the hill, be a shrub in the valley. Be be the best little shrub on the side of the hill.
Be a bush if you can't be a tree. If you can't be a highway, just be a trail. If you can't be a sun, be a star. For it isn't by size that you win or fail. Be the best of whatever you are. Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
#2. "We declare our right on this earth...to be a human being, to be respected as a human being, to be given the rights of a human being in this society, on this earth, in this day, which we intend to bring into existence by any means necessary."
"Our objective is complete freedom, justice and equality by any means necessary."
"The day that the black man takes an uncompromising step and realizes that he's within his rights, when his own freedom is being jeopardized, to use any means necessary to bring about his freedom or put a halt to that injustice, I don't think he'll be by himself." Malcolm X.
#3. Ain't I A Woman?
by Sojourner Truth
Women's Rights & African-American Rights Pioneer
Delivered To The Women's Convention In Akron, Ohio - December, 1851
Well, children, where there is so much racket there must be something out of kilter. I think that 'twixt the negroes of the South and the women at the North, all talking about rights, the white men will be in a fix pretty soon. But what's all this here talking about?
That man over there says that women need to be helped into carriages, and lifted over ditches, and to have the best place everywhere. Nobody ever helps me into carriages, or over mud-puddles, or gives me any best place! And ain't I a woman? Look at me! Look at my arm! I have ploughed and planted, and gathered into barns, and no man could head me! And ain't I a woman? I could work as much and eat as much as a man - when I could get it - and bear the lash as well! And ain't I a woman? I have borne thirteen children, and seen most all sold off to slavery, and when I cried out with my mother's grief, none but Jesus heard me! And ain't I a woman?
Then they talk about this thing in the head; what's this they call it? [member of audience whispers, "intellect"] That's it, honey. What's that got to do with women's rights or negroes' rights? If my cup won't hold but a pint, and yours holds a quart, wouldn't you be mean not to let me have my little half measure full?
Then that little man in black there, he says women can't have as much rights as men, 'cause Christ wasn't a woman! Where did your Christ come from? Where did your Christ come from? From God and a woman! Man had nothing to do with Him.
If the first woman God ever made was strong enough to turn the world upside down all alone, these women together ought to be able to turn it back , and get it right side up again! And now they is asking to do it, the men better let them.
Obliged to you for hearing me, and now old Sojourner ain't got nothing more to say.
So C.J. one day you will read this and wonder to yourself, why did daddy capture these words for me." I am going to save you the mystery and give you a little insight. Daddy wants you be be a strong young woman, firm in your position. Daddy wants you to have pride in all you do, to be focused and dedicated to the causes you deem as important in your life. Finally the Malcolm X words. Sometime you will have to just go out there and take things you want. This is not meant in a negative way. It simply means that sometimes you will have to be assertive and aggressive to get what ans where you want.
To all my readers, I am raising a well balanced young woman so when I go off on tangents please understand why! Until next time always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Trouble, Trouble, Trouble!
Today was the day I knew would come, the reign of terror is currently upon us. Yo have to understand something. C.J. has a big cousin, we call her Breezie. She is a child who has been here before, maybe a few times. This girl called me Rudy up until about a month ago. She knows my name too. Now when we asked her why she called me that she simply said because I wanted too. Breezie is more like a hurricane than any kind of breeze.
When C.J. was born I instructed her not to deal with Breezie. She was told that she would be the reason that she would get in trouble with daddy. Now For C.J. to get in trouble with me it would take a lot but with Breezie all things are possible. So today they are at their Great-Grandma's house and Breezie has a cookie. of course my child being the greedy girl she is eyes the cookie. So my niece decided that she wanted to share with C.J. After she was told that C.J. could not have the cookie she took it upon herself to break a small piece of to offer her. C.J.'s mouth watered and if Breezie was not stopped she would have feasted upon her first chocolate chip cookie.
It is great that C.J. will have a lot of folks to grow up with. Family is very important for me and I want my children to have the same kind of upbringing. This way they will know their family. they will form bonds and they will learn how to support one another.
C.J. and Breezie will be a force to be reckoned with for a long time. The trouble is only beginning. I know we are in trouble because when I asked C.J. about the events of the evening she looked at her daddy and smirked. So world look out! I warn you now that C.J. has hooked up with a monster and they are gonna run loose. I will do my best to keep her tame but I do not know if my best will be good enough. So in closing please pray for me and C.J. because prayer changes things. This one I have to mention before I go. Shatema made a visit during her lunch period to the sitter. She comes home and tell me that the little boy at the sitter was fascinated with C.J. , wanted to share his toys and was looking and smiling at my baby. People, mommy said C.J. smiled back. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!You all know I am going to the range soon! Again, always pray because prayer can changes things and most of all people.
When C.J. was born I instructed her not to deal with Breezie. She was told that she would be the reason that she would get in trouble with daddy. Now For C.J. to get in trouble with me it would take a lot but with Breezie all things are possible. So today they are at their Great-Grandma's house and Breezie has a cookie. of course my child being the greedy girl she is eyes the cookie. So my niece decided that she wanted to share with C.J. After she was told that C.J. could not have the cookie she took it upon herself to break a small piece of to offer her. C.J.'s mouth watered and if Breezie was not stopped she would have feasted upon her first chocolate chip cookie.
It is great that C.J. will have a lot of folks to grow up with. Family is very important for me and I want my children to have the same kind of upbringing. This way they will know their family. they will form bonds and they will learn how to support one another.
C.J. and Breezie will be a force to be reckoned with for a long time. The trouble is only beginning. I know we are in trouble because when I asked C.J. about the events of the evening she looked at her daddy and smirked. So world look out! I warn you now that C.J. has hooked up with a monster and they are gonna run loose. I will do my best to keep her tame but I do not know if my best will be good enough. So in closing please pray for me and C.J. because prayer changes things. This one I have to mention before I go. Shatema made a visit during her lunch period to the sitter. She comes home and tell me that the little boy at the sitter was fascinated with C.J. , wanted to share his toys and was looking and smiling at my baby. People, mommy said C.J. smiled back. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!You all know I am going to the range soon! Again, always pray because prayer can changes things and most of all people.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Real Quick
Sometimes you just run out of time. So today I will leave a few quotes for my girl C.J.
1. Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer
2. People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. Andrew Carnegie
3. The dictionary is the only place where success comes before work. Mark Twain
4. Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out. Robert Collier
5. If you want to get somewhere you have to know where you want to go and how to get there. Then never, never, never give up. Norman Vincent Peale
C.J., these are some quotes that one day you will understand the underlying meaning. They all will help you develop a strong work ethic and help you achieve all the goals you set for yourself. Just know your daddy is always here for you and is your loudest cheerleader!
1. Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer
2. People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. Andrew Carnegie
3. The dictionary is the only place where success comes before work. Mark Twain
4. Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out. Robert Collier
5. If you want to get somewhere you have to know where you want to go and how to get there. Then never, never, never give up. Norman Vincent Peale
C.J., these are some quotes that one day you will understand the underlying meaning. They all will help you develop a strong work ethic and help you achieve all the goals you set for yourself. Just know your daddy is always here for you and is your loudest cheerleader!
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Child Growth & Development
In college I studied the likes of Piaget, Vgotsky, Dewey and Skinner. I will say this upfront, at the time I hated everything about these guys. You have to understand I was forced to remember every theory, every stage, every similarity, every difference, every year and more. My diet for an entire semester consisted of these men. Now back then you would never get me to believe I would use this material once I left SPED 101. Which to date is one of the most difficult classes I have engaged in because of the large amount of material packed into a semester. As a 29 year old Educator I will admit that I was wrong.
The first day I stepped foot into my first grade classroom I needed to call up my boys to analyze where my students were functioning. They all played a role in my classroom and when I left the elementary level of education I again though I would leave them behind. Again I was wrong. I refer to my boys now when I deal with my students at the collegiate level. They should be far along the spectrum but some of them (And I love them all) are still at the beginning.
C.J. also brings me back to the beginning stages of development. We now have her spending more time on her belly. This fores her to lift up her head on her own which she is doing quite well I might add. I spend a lot of time with her. Letting her grasp my hand, have her pull on some of her toys, watching her kicking her feet and trying to roll over. Since I have a little knowledge in the area I should use it with my own kid. One thing I try to do is not make her a lab rat. I do not want to watch her according to any scales or books. that would not only drive me crazy but more importantly it would drive C.J. nuts.
As an educator I once thought that I would have very critical of everything my poor baby did. Is she doing that right, is this on-time, when will this happen, when will that happen. Until I decided way before she was born to let her do her! She will do what she wants to do and let me share with you all that C.J. does what she wants when she wants. Right now it is not a problem but one day it might be and then we will have to have a sit down. If that does not work, thy rod and thy staff might have to comfort her, lol! All in all she is developing quite nicely and I am pleased with her progress. I will always refer to my prior knowledge i am just glad I have my own to draw from.
Have a great evening and do not forget to pray. Prayer changes things!
Note for C.J. Always put in the work for the results you desire.
The first day I stepped foot into my first grade classroom I needed to call up my boys to analyze where my students were functioning. They all played a role in my classroom and when I left the elementary level of education I again though I would leave them behind. Again I was wrong. I refer to my boys now when I deal with my students at the collegiate level. They should be far along the spectrum but some of them (And I love them all) are still at the beginning.
C.J. also brings me back to the beginning stages of development. We now have her spending more time on her belly. This fores her to lift up her head on her own which she is doing quite well I might add. I spend a lot of time with her. Letting her grasp my hand, have her pull on some of her toys, watching her kicking her feet and trying to roll over. Since I have a little knowledge in the area I should use it with my own kid. One thing I try to do is not make her a lab rat. I do not want to watch her according to any scales or books. that would not only drive me crazy but more importantly it would drive C.J. nuts.
As an educator I once thought that I would have very critical of everything my poor baby did. Is she doing that right, is this on-time, when will this happen, when will that happen. Until I decided way before she was born to let her do her! She will do what she wants to do and let me share with you all that C.J. does what she wants when she wants. Right now it is not a problem but one day it might be and then we will have to have a sit down. If that does not work, thy rod and thy staff might have to comfort her, lol! All in all she is developing quite nicely and I am pleased with her progress. I will always refer to my prior knowledge i am just glad I have my own to draw from.
Have a great evening and do not forget to pray. Prayer changes things!
Note for C.J. Always put in the work for the results you desire.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Here's Laughing At You!
One of the greatest things to wake up to every morning is a smile. A smile can usher in a great day on the job, in school, on the road and quite frankly anywhere you will find yourself.
This morning I changed the morning routine a little. Instead of waiting for mommy to get ready and then once she was done get C.J. ready I pitched in. Getting C.J. up in the morning is a chore, she stretches, she yawns, she grunts and she makes it difficult for anyone involved. However today was a little different. After she interrupted my last half hour of sleep; you know that dimension of sleep that either makes you say you had a great not of sleep or that you did not sleep well at all. The last moments of sleep that usually cap off a great dream. The last few moments of sleep that can erase the bags from under your eyes, yes folks that sleep. I proceeded to wash her up. The funny thing is that she did not make a peep instead she began to giggle, laugh and smile. It was like she was happy she was being cleaned. As I continued my heart was full of excitement to see my little girl so happy. To me it means I am doing what I am suppose to do. I aim not to make her happy but so that she has joy running throughout her veins.
This morning was so fun getting her ready that I will attempt Day 2 in the morning. I hope the smiles and giggles come again because they helped kick daddy's week off more than she will ever know.
I am going to turn in early tonight so in parting you all always remember to pray because like I always say, "Prayer changes things!"
This morning I changed the morning routine a little. Instead of waiting for mommy to get ready and then once she was done get C.J. ready I pitched in. Getting C.J. up in the morning is a chore, she stretches, she yawns, she grunts and she makes it difficult for anyone involved. However today was a little different. After she interrupted my last half hour of sleep; you know that dimension of sleep that either makes you say you had a great not of sleep or that you did not sleep well at all. The last moments of sleep that usually cap off a great dream. The last few moments of sleep that can erase the bags from under your eyes, yes folks that sleep. I proceeded to wash her up. The funny thing is that she did not make a peep instead she began to giggle, laugh and smile. It was like she was happy she was being cleaned. As I continued my heart was full of excitement to see my little girl so happy. To me it means I am doing what I am suppose to do. I aim not to make her happy but so that she has joy running throughout her veins.
This morning was so fun getting her ready that I will attempt Day 2 in the morning. I hope the smiles and giggles come again because they helped kick daddy's week off more than she will ever know.
I am going to turn in early tonight so in parting you all always remember to pray because like I always say, "Prayer changes things!"
Sunday, November 15, 2009
So Much To Do...So Little Time
I used to look for more hours in a day because I wanted to fit time in to do what I now see as nothing. More dates to hang with the fellas, to recuperate from long nights and to add more amusement to my life. Now I look for more time for two reasons, rest and C.J.
For some reason 24 hours never seems to be enough. When I look back at the day and I factor in the time I drive, the time she sleeps, the time I have to do some type of work, and the time spent preparing for the next day, it seems that my daddy/daughter time is not where I want it to be. Now some of you remember that last week I took some time to prioritize things in my life, to allow for more time with C.J. I did that and I found particular days. Days where C.J. and Daddy can hang out and strengthen the father/daughter bond. I am not referencing those days now. My issue now is time within the day. Days now seem so routine for me. I am a free thinker and spirit. When I plan, it has to be my schedule, not the one forced on me by life...get up, get ready, go to work, work, drive home, cook, prepare for tomorrow, go to sleep. I need some extra hours to just sit and stare at C.J., to go out and toss the ball around, to run around and play tag and to sit for hours and read with her all the science book we can.
Those days will come because God will send them our way! All that needs to be done will be accomplished within the time frame that God allots. I am OK with that because as the preacher said today, "I have a direct connection with God!", and if you're not down with that, I have two words for you, "GET ONE!"
Time will always be of interest for me because I always watch. I think I may need to change the way I look at time moving forward. Currently I always see it as running out. I may need to look at time as what it is, something developed to calculate days, years and centuries. That way it means nothing to me and I just go about my life doing what I want, when I want and how God arranges it to be done.
I will ponder on that. Until I come back with an answer you all remember to pray because prayer changes things.
C.J. Daddy never wants you to be in a hurry. Do things with style and grace. Now I am not telling you to be a slow poke, either. But your Daddy knows that when people rush, they mess up. However, when they take their time, they accomplish what they set out to do. Always loving you, your Daddy!
For some reason 24 hours never seems to be enough. When I look back at the day and I factor in the time I drive, the time she sleeps, the time I have to do some type of work, and the time spent preparing for the next day, it seems that my daddy/daughter time is not where I want it to be. Now some of you remember that last week I took some time to prioritize things in my life, to allow for more time with C.J. I did that and I found particular days. Days where C.J. and Daddy can hang out and strengthen the father/daughter bond. I am not referencing those days now. My issue now is time within the day. Days now seem so routine for me. I am a free thinker and spirit. When I plan, it has to be my schedule, not the one forced on me by life...get up, get ready, go to work, work, drive home, cook, prepare for tomorrow, go to sleep. I need some extra hours to just sit and stare at C.J., to go out and toss the ball around, to run around and play tag and to sit for hours and read with her all the science book we can.
Those days will come because God will send them our way! All that needs to be done will be accomplished within the time frame that God allots. I am OK with that because as the preacher said today, "I have a direct connection with God!", and if you're not down with that, I have two words for you, "GET ONE!"
Time will always be of interest for me because I always watch. I think I may need to change the way I look at time moving forward. Currently I always see it as running out. I may need to look at time as what it is, something developed to calculate days, years and centuries. That way it means nothing to me and I just go about my life doing what I want, when I want and how God arranges it to be done.
I will ponder on that. Until I come back with an answer you all remember to pray because prayer changes things.
C.J. Daddy never wants you to be in a hurry. Do things with style and grace. Now I am not telling you to be a slow poke, either. But your Daddy knows that when people rush, they mess up. However, when they take their time, they accomplish what they set out to do. Always loving you, your Daddy!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words
When the times comes to reflect all we will have is pictures. Pictures tell a lot about a person. Hairstyles, clothing preference, when you lost a tooth, the pretty frown you would put on for sympathy and the smile you easily clad when you were happy.
Today the Johnson Family from Old Bridge took their first family portrait. We all looked nice, colors matched well to create a nice photograph. The family photo went off without a hitch. However the story changed when the Princess C.J. watch photographed alone. That is when I knew I would spend money. I mean come on do you think I could leave any pictures of here idle. Let me answer that for you, no.
C.J. was the center of attention because we had to sessions today. One for the church and the other for holiday cards. In both she smiled a little but not as much as she could have. I say could have because when the cameras were noticed affixed to her face she was all smiles. Today was full of joy. When you take pictures you are reminded of how blessed you are. I am blessed to have a loving wife and daughter who mean the world to me. The love was captured for a lifetime today as we smiled for the cameras.
For C.J. this was nothing new to her. Daddy always has a camera pointed in her direction. We have a picture date soon. Once her ears are pierced daddy and C.J. are dawning their NY Giant gear and taking pics supporting our favorite team! Mommy is contemplating joining us too.
Today was great! Lasting memories were captured in time. One day I will sit with C.J. and be able to pinpoint the day and hour that the photo was taken. We can both relive the joy we had in our hearts together. You all remember to pray tonight because prayer changes things.
Today the Johnson Family from Old Bridge took their first family portrait. We all looked nice, colors matched well to create a nice photograph. The family photo went off without a hitch. However the story changed when the Princess C.J. watch photographed alone. That is when I knew I would spend money. I mean come on do you think I could leave any pictures of here idle. Let me answer that for you, no.
C.J. was the center of attention because we had to sessions today. One for the church and the other for holiday cards. In both she smiled a little but not as much as she could have. I say could have because when the cameras were noticed affixed to her face she was all smiles. Today was full of joy. When you take pictures you are reminded of how blessed you are. I am blessed to have a loving wife and daughter who mean the world to me. The love was captured for a lifetime today as we smiled for the cameras.
For C.J. this was nothing new to her. Daddy always has a camera pointed in her direction. We have a picture date soon. Once her ears are pierced daddy and C.J. are dawning their NY Giant gear and taking pics supporting our favorite team! Mommy is contemplating joining us too.
Today was great! Lasting memories were captured in time. One day I will sit with C.J. and be able to pinpoint the day and hour that the photo was taken. We can both relive the joy we had in our hearts together. You all remember to pray tonight because prayer changes things.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Government Issued ID
We all knew as children that if your mother called you using your entire name that you were in some deep trouble. For me that would have been, Jamal Tyre Johnson.... I never wanted to hear that combination together. The response was always, "Dag, she called my whole name, I am in trouble now." The entire name brought fear into your heart. It made your mind begin to wander. It made you cringe because you never knew what was coming to you.
Well I decided to begin early with calling C.J. by her government. Actually I found it funny and the sad thing is that she did too. Today C.J. decided that she wanted to be difficult. This morning she fussed during her entire dressing. I mean yelling at the top of her lungs like someone was hurting her. I looked my little girl dead in the face and said "Camille Jamari Johnson, you need to hush up and let your Mommy finish making you look like we love and care for you". Her little butt paid me no attention, which brings us to her little episode in the car home. I will go on record to say this, she better be glad she did not act up in the mall or it would have been ugly between us two. We are driving home, everyone is cool, the music is playing, no traffic was out...it was a good smooth ride.
Suddenly out of nowhere Shatema's daughter begins to cry hysterically. Now she just had eaten. She was the recipient of Daddy and Mommy's hard earned pay checks, and she was dry, so why she wanted to act up is beyond me. I had another stop to make, so Mommy dealt with her but she would not stop. So we resume to making our way home, and then when she decided to, she began to fade off. Now I wanted to kick her little butt but I just appreciated the moment because I just wanted her quiet.
I felt like calling her out again but I figured one instance of your entire governmental in a day was enough. Needless to say this girl of mine is developing an interesting little personality. I guess we will be going at it in the years to come. I will love her but she ain't going to be the boss of me, lol. Well tonight I am going to head off to bed. Long day tomorrow. Until then you all remember to pray because prayer changes things.
Well I decided to begin early with calling C.J. by her government. Actually I found it funny and the sad thing is that she did too. Today C.J. decided that she wanted to be difficult. This morning she fussed during her entire dressing. I mean yelling at the top of her lungs like someone was hurting her. I looked my little girl dead in the face and said "Camille Jamari Johnson, you need to hush up and let your Mommy finish making you look like we love and care for you". Her little butt paid me no attention, which brings us to her little episode in the car home. I will go on record to say this, she better be glad she did not act up in the mall or it would have been ugly between us two. We are driving home, everyone is cool, the music is playing, no traffic was out...it was a good smooth ride.
Suddenly out of nowhere Shatema's daughter begins to cry hysterically. Now she just had eaten. She was the recipient of Daddy and Mommy's hard earned pay checks, and she was dry, so why she wanted to act up is beyond me. I had another stop to make, so Mommy dealt with her but she would not stop. So we resume to making our way home, and then when she decided to, she began to fade off. Now I wanted to kick her little butt but I just appreciated the moment because I just wanted her quiet.
I felt like calling her out again but I figured one instance of your entire governmental in a day was enough. Needless to say this girl of mine is developing an interesting little personality. I guess we will be going at it in the years to come. I will love her but she ain't going to be the boss of me, lol. Well tonight I am going to head off to bed. Long day tomorrow. Until then you all remember to pray because prayer changes things.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Speak For Yourself
OK, sometimes I have to vent. I promise to keep everything relevant to the cause though. Growing up, the one thing that separated my siblings and I from many other children we knew was that we were allowed to say what was on our minds. We are all able to stand behind what we say and what we believe. When we say something we mean it no matter how it may come out. I thank my parents because I think that I am a stronger person today because of it.
Having that ability as a child helped me to not be scared to speak in front of people. More importantly it made me learn how to speak for myself. To this day I will never let someone speak for me. It hurt me today to see a young man stand and look as his mother engaged in dialogue with me concerning his future. It annoyed me so much that when our conversation was done I asked the young man if he was able to speak. When you let someone speak for you, they have the opportunity to plan for you and then live for you. I really do not care if it is someone's mother or father. We all were given one brain that allows us to think for ourselves.
As I reflect on my childhood I recall how people thought my parents were crazy for allowing us to speak for ourselves. To their chagrin it was everyone else that had it wrong. I am am confident in my speech, articulate when I present and I think a lot more about what I say and how I say it, all because I was allowed to speak my mind as a child. It helped shape me into who I am today.
So as I begin life with C.J. she too will be a child who is allowed to speak for herself. As long asIi instill in her the right way to do so, C.J. will be fine. Just like her daddy, she will be a confident young woman who stands on her word firmly and will know how to represent herself and her family well. So good people until next time, always remember to pray because prayer changes things.
Having that ability as a child helped me to not be scared to speak in front of people. More importantly it made me learn how to speak for myself. To this day I will never let someone speak for me. It hurt me today to see a young man stand and look as his mother engaged in dialogue with me concerning his future. It annoyed me so much that when our conversation was done I asked the young man if he was able to speak. When you let someone speak for you, they have the opportunity to plan for you and then live for you. I really do not care if it is someone's mother or father. We all were given one brain that allows us to think for ourselves.
As I reflect on my childhood I recall how people thought my parents were crazy for allowing us to speak for ourselves. To their chagrin it was everyone else that had it wrong. I am am confident in my speech, articulate when I present and I think a lot more about what I say and how I say it, all because I was allowed to speak my mind as a child. It helped shape me into who I am today.
So as I begin life with C.J. she too will be a child who is allowed to speak for herself. As long asIi instill in her the right way to do so, C.J. will be fine. Just like her daddy, she will be a confident young woman who stands on her word firmly and will know how to represent herself and her family well. So good people until next time, always remember to pray because prayer changes things.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Stop! Daddy Time!!!
Today was a different kind of day. Daddy and C.J. were together more than usual. Daddy had to step up to do some daily tasks that he normally does not do. Mommy was not feeling well so she decided to stay home to get better. So C.J. had to ride in the back seat today without any conversation and daddy had to drive and not be able to look back in on his princess.
The day got better once we arrived home. Mommy was still relaxing but C.J. needed to be changed. Now I will admit I will yield to mommy to change diapers but today was daddy time so I stepped to the plate. Needless to say C.J. had hit a home-run in her pamper. This was not going to be good. So I got all my utensils together to change a successful pamper. I grabbed a pamper, a handful of wipes, some ointment and a washcloth because this was going to be heavy duty. When I pulled the pamper back all I could say was, "Oh my God!" It was all over the place, I wish I could have passed her off but I proceeded to handle my business.
Later on in the evening it was my time to shine again as I gave her a bath, of course mommy stood and supervised. The good thing about it was that she was perfectly calm throughout the entire bath. After the bath I greased her all up and gave her to mommy for reading time. Eloise Greenfield Poetry was the selected reading of the day.
Now C.J. should have been sleep after that but she was not. So of course daddy went and got his princess and held her for a bit. Then I put her in the crib, turned on the mobile and the rest is history. She is sound asleep now and hopefully she will continue to sleep through the night.
Daddy put his time in today and would do it any day of the week. You all remember to pray and include someone else in your prayers. prayer changes things but prayer has to be offered up to work! Be blessed.
The day got better once we arrived home. Mommy was still relaxing but C.J. needed to be changed. Now I will admit I will yield to mommy to change diapers but today was daddy time so I stepped to the plate. Needless to say C.J. had hit a home-run in her pamper. This was not going to be good. So I got all my utensils together to change a successful pamper. I grabbed a pamper, a handful of wipes, some ointment and a washcloth because this was going to be heavy duty. When I pulled the pamper back all I could say was, "Oh my God!" It was all over the place, I wish I could have passed her off but I proceeded to handle my business.
Later on in the evening it was my time to shine again as I gave her a bath, of course mommy stood and supervised. The good thing about it was that she was perfectly calm throughout the entire bath. After the bath I greased her all up and gave her to mommy for reading time. Eloise Greenfield Poetry was the selected reading of the day.
Now C.J. should have been sleep after that but she was not. So of course daddy went and got his princess and held her for a bit. Then I put her in the crib, turned on the mobile and the rest is history. She is sound asleep now and hopefully she will continue to sleep through the night.
Daddy put his time in today and would do it any day of the week. You all remember to pray and include someone else in your prayers. prayer changes things but prayer has to be offered up to work! Be blessed.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Proud Poppa Bear
I was excited the day I graduated high school but the excitement soon faded away. When I walked the stage to receive my degree I smiled from ear to ear but soon the smile went back to normal. The day I got married I was walking on sunshine and still am walking on that same sunshine, but some moons have come my way. The day C.J. was born, quite frankly, might go down as one of my proudest moments. I say that because the feeling has not gone away yet. Anytime someone asks about her or they respond to one of her pictures on my desk at work, a feeling comes over me and my chest pokes out a little.
I feel this way because God has blessed me with a responsibilty to nurture, protect, teach and provide for one of His children. He created C.J. in his image just for me to be her Daddy here on earth. He gave her some of my looks (of course) and her personality is beginning to bud. She is full of life, and is quite the little loud one too. She must get that from her Daddy, lol! C.J. will be heard!
What I am most proud of is that C.J. is very responsive. Each night Shatema bathes her, moisturizes her skin, gets her all warm and snuggly, comforts her, prays with her and then begins to reveal knowledge to her by way of a very diverse literature collection. During this time I let them be so they could have their mommy/daughter time. Most of the time I am feverishly working and I do not hear a thing. Tonight was different. As I worked at the computer I could hear most of what was going on. I paused and listened, and actually heard C.J. responding to what Shatema was reading. She was loud and on cue too. A huge grin came upon my face and I even typed a message to a friend that I wanted to shed a tear because of what I heard. I told her that I was a proud poppa bear.
I was read to as a child and always had an extensive library but I never enjoyed reading. I could read very well but sitting down and reading a book was not my thing. It was not until later in life when I began to love research that I had a desire to read, but it is difficult because I did not practice as a child. It is the reason why I am very particular with regard to making sure that C.J. is read to daily. The babysitter reads, Mommy reads and Daddy reads with C.J., and to hear her being responsive tells me she enjoys what she is hearing.
It is my prayer that I have many more proud moments to log into my memory book. August 7th, 2009 was the beginning and November 10th, 2009 is another log entry. What is next? We do not know yet but I anxiously await the moment it comes. Until next time, always remember to pray because prayer still changes things!
I feel this way because God has blessed me with a responsibilty to nurture, protect, teach and provide for one of His children. He created C.J. in his image just for me to be her Daddy here on earth. He gave her some of my looks (of course) and her personality is beginning to bud. She is full of life, and is quite the little loud one too. She must get that from her Daddy, lol! C.J. will be heard!
What I am most proud of is that C.J. is very responsive. Each night Shatema bathes her, moisturizes her skin, gets her all warm and snuggly, comforts her, prays with her and then begins to reveal knowledge to her by way of a very diverse literature collection. During this time I let them be so they could have their mommy/daughter time. Most of the time I am feverishly working and I do not hear a thing. Tonight was different. As I worked at the computer I could hear most of what was going on. I paused and listened, and actually heard C.J. responding to what Shatema was reading. She was loud and on cue too. A huge grin came upon my face and I even typed a message to a friend that I wanted to shed a tear because of what I heard. I told her that I was a proud poppa bear.
I was read to as a child and always had an extensive library but I never enjoyed reading. I could read very well but sitting down and reading a book was not my thing. It was not until later in life when I began to love research that I had a desire to read, but it is difficult because I did not practice as a child. It is the reason why I am very particular with regard to making sure that C.J. is read to daily. The babysitter reads, Mommy reads and Daddy reads with C.J., and to hear her being responsive tells me she enjoys what she is hearing.
It is my prayer that I have many more proud moments to log into my memory book. August 7th, 2009 was the beginning and November 10th, 2009 is another log entry. What is next? We do not know yet but I anxiously await the moment it comes. Until next time, always remember to pray because prayer still changes things!
Monday, November 9, 2009
Two Faced
I am not going to get deep tonight. I have to simply tell you all about C.J.'s visit to the doctor for her 3 month visit. My girl was awake for the first time so we knew she was up to something. So we are sitting in the examination room waiting for the doctor. C.J. is looking all over the place. She was really fascinated with the instruments she saw in the room. She would look then smile and giggle. I mean she was live folks. I had her on the table talking to her and she was responding. It was a sight to see.
Suddenly the doctor comes in and the mood changes. Almost as thew white jacket was seen through the door, C.J. look the lip drops and the cutest frown comes across her face. then the crying began and she actually had tears. We stood around and tried to figure out why she started crying. I could not even console her. The doctor said she was very emotional for her age, I cracked up when he said that. This girl cried through the whole examination today. Here is the craziest part of the evening. After two shots in the thigh C.J. calms down and is quiet. Now you tell me how backwards that is.
I had to share that because she was in rare form today. Yes, daddy called his girl two-faced! I love her though. So tomorrow is another day, until then you all always remember to pray becasue prayer changes things.
Suddenly the doctor comes in and the mood changes. Almost as thew white jacket was seen through the door, C.J. look the lip drops and the cutest frown comes across her face. then the crying began and she actually had tears. We stood around and tried to figure out why she started crying. I could not even console her. The doctor said she was very emotional for her age, I cracked up when he said that. This girl cried through the whole examination today. Here is the craziest part of the evening. After two shots in the thigh C.J. calms down and is quiet. Now you tell me how backwards that is.
I had to share that because she was in rare form today. Yes, daddy called his girl two-faced! I love her though. So tomorrow is another day, until then you all always remember to pray becasue prayer changes things.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Back to the Routine
After a real adventurous night I finally made it home. Tomorrow we will be back to our normal routine. Daddy is up at 4:45am and we have to be out the door by 6:30am. We do it with our eyes barely open and trusting in God.
We learned a lot about ourselves as we had some time off together. We learned that C.J. will sit quiet as long as music is playing that she likes. We learned that Daddy has to change more diapers so that mommy is not the only person C.J. gets mad at for placing her on her back. We learned that C.J. knows when she is in a different place and surrounded by different voices. She responds differently. We also learned that daddy and C.J. never really get tired of each other.
So tomorrow it is back to the babysitter, back to work and a routine visit to the pediatrician for some more shots. Hopefully she will take them like a champ like she has done all the other shots she has been administered. I am going to miss spending the day with C.J. and i am seriously considering making my day off that is coming up a C.J. and Daddy day!
So pray for us as we get back into the swing of things. Daddy is back at 100%, C.J. is still growing and mommy is still the best ever! So as I sign off to make sure I am well rested for the morning you all always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
C.J. the Devil will throw things at you when you least expect it. Stay prayed up to be able to continue mooving while he is kicking and screaming!
We learned a lot about ourselves as we had some time off together. We learned that C.J. will sit quiet as long as music is playing that she likes. We learned that Daddy has to change more diapers so that mommy is not the only person C.J. gets mad at for placing her on her back. We learned that C.J. knows when she is in a different place and surrounded by different voices. She responds differently. We also learned that daddy and C.J. never really get tired of each other.
So tomorrow it is back to the babysitter, back to work and a routine visit to the pediatrician for some more shots. Hopefully she will take them like a champ like she has done all the other shots she has been administered. I am going to miss spending the day with C.J. and i am seriously considering making my day off that is coming up a C.J. and Daddy day!
So pray for us as we get back into the swing of things. Daddy is back at 100%, C.J. is still growing and mommy is still the best ever! So as I sign off to make sure I am well rested for the morning you all always remember to pray because prayer changes things!
C.J. the Devil will throw things at you when you least expect it. Stay prayed up to be able to continue mooving while he is kicking and screaming!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
3 Months Old
My, my, my, how times flies when you are having fun! A little earlier tonight I told C.J. that she was the best thing that ever happened in my life. She may not understand why I told her that now but the day will come when C.J. has a full understanding of her importance in my life.
It only seems like yesterday when we were in the doctors office and he told us that he wanted Shatema to go to the hospital later that day because he was going to induce her labor. All I remember from that point on was telling Shatema that I needed to go to the bank before anything went down because I needed to get a few more things for her arrival. We then went to the hospital where things moved along rather quickly. Then it happened C.J. came into the world and began to exercise her lungs. My life as I knew it would forever be different.
As I sit and watch her on a daily basis I can only smile. Nothing but joy fills my heart when I am in her presence. She has a hypnotic power over me that draws all my attention to her whenever she wants it. she is truly "Daddy's Princess" and if you would ask Shatema she would probably say she should be elevated to "Queen" status.
In these three very short months C.j has done so much. She lifts her head, she kicks her feet, she keeps that fist clinched for battle, she chats, she giggles, she is very observant, she pays very close attention to her surrounding area, sje likes to be read too and she loves music. Most of all C.J. can throw down on the milk! I love to come home and play with her on her activity mats, dance around with her and toss the ball to her and see her reaction.
These three months have been the start to a wonderful relationship between father and daughter. So many special moments have been lived and captured so I can share them with her when she gets older. The bond that we have thus far prayerfully will only get stronger. We have a long way to go but the outlook looks good. My baby is 3 months old today! It has been my pleasure being her daddy!
It only seems like yesterday when we were in the doctors office and he told us that he wanted Shatema to go to the hospital later that day because he was going to induce her labor. All I remember from that point on was telling Shatema that I needed to go to the bank before anything went down because I needed to get a few more things for her arrival. We then went to the hospital where things moved along rather quickly. Then it happened C.J. came into the world and began to exercise her lungs. My life as I knew it would forever be different.
As I sit and watch her on a daily basis I can only smile. Nothing but joy fills my heart when I am in her presence. She has a hypnotic power over me that draws all my attention to her whenever she wants it. she is truly "Daddy's Princess" and if you would ask Shatema she would probably say she should be elevated to "Queen" status.
In these three very short months C.j has done so much. She lifts her head, she kicks her feet, she keeps that fist clinched for battle, she chats, she giggles, she is very observant, she pays very close attention to her surrounding area, sje likes to be read too and she loves music. Most of all C.J. can throw down on the milk! I love to come home and play with her on her activity mats, dance around with her and toss the ball to her and see her reaction.
These three months have been the start to a wonderful relationship between father and daughter. So many special moments have been lived and captured so I can share them with her when she gets older. The bond that we have thus far prayerfully will only get stronger. We have a long way to go but the outlook looks good. My baby is 3 months old today! It has been my pleasure being her daddy!
Friday, November 6, 2009
Its A Family Affair
If you don not have your family what do you have? C.J. has the pleasure of having two particularly large families. It is daddy's desire that she knows her true history. As a child we always did family tree activities. I knew my all my grandparents, great-grandparents and beyond because I would ask questions then sit at the feet of the elders and listen to stories about the old day on the farms of Georgia, Alabama, Virginia and North Carolina. These stories interested me because I learned a lot about my kin that normally you would not know.
So now I have C.J. and I would like for her to have knowledge of who she is and where she came from. She will be able to go far because she knows her history. My desire is to take her to the different places her ancestors use to live. I will explain to her why it is significant, why they left, where they migrated to and what it all means to her. Geographically C.J. might not have th fortune of learning black history in her classroom so daddy will have to make sure that he is on point with immersing her in her history.
I want her to know the sacrifices that her people made. i want he to know that all of her great-grandparents were strong, hardworking people from the south who leaned and depended on no on other than the good Lord above. I want her to know that her grandparents lived a modest life so that their children would be successful in life. I w3ant her to know that her parents made it to where they are today by being supported by their nuclear families just like her mommy and daddy will support her.
So today she spent the day with her great-grandma and after she carefully examined the different surroundings she began to chat a little bit so her grandma knew she was an alert baby. I feel that family is important and want to make sure even though she lives a little ways from most of her folks that she will always have opportunities to bond with them. also to be able to ask questions of her elders and sit at their feet to hear stories about daddy and mommy when they were kids and how life was when they grew up. So as I leave today, always promote family folks. When the smoke clears it is your family that will be there cheering you on and supporting you in all you do. Until next time, you all remember to pray because prayer always changes things.
So now I have C.J. and I would like for her to have knowledge of who she is and where she came from. She will be able to go far because she knows her history. My desire is to take her to the different places her ancestors use to live. I will explain to her why it is significant, why they left, where they migrated to and what it all means to her. Geographically C.J. might not have th fortune of learning black history in her classroom so daddy will have to make sure that he is on point with immersing her in her history.
I want her to know the sacrifices that her people made. i want he to know that all of her great-grandparents were strong, hardworking people from the south who leaned and depended on no on other than the good Lord above. I want her to know that her grandparents lived a modest life so that their children would be successful in life. I w3ant her to know that her parents made it to where they are today by being supported by their nuclear families just like her mommy and daddy will support her.
So today she spent the day with her great-grandma and after she carefully examined the different surroundings she began to chat a little bit so her grandma knew she was an alert baby. I feel that family is important and want to make sure even though she lives a little ways from most of her folks that she will always have opportunities to bond with them. also to be able to ask questions of her elders and sit at their feet to hear stories about daddy and mommy when they were kids and how life was when they grew up. So as I leave today, always promote family folks. When the smoke clears it is your family that will be there cheering you on and supporting you in all you do. Until next time, you all remember to pray because prayer always changes things.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Simply Wonderful
When you arm begins to get heavy because nestled within it is your daughter who has become comfortable, happiness is the feeling that you have. Earlier tonight Mommy and Daddy both realized that this week C.J. was spoiled beyond belief. We are both home...Mommy's time off is because school is out and Daddy's is because he needed some time to look deep into himself. C.J wanted to be in one of our hands at all times. I know I should have been a little more stern with her but when Daddy and his girl are together, she usually gets the best of him.
I have been talking a lot lately about her being the number one priority in all I do, and I want to explain why. When I became a parent I only knew parenting as what I was raised under. That is that you do whatever is necessary for your children to have what they need and to feel loved. When two parents can keep six children fairly happy I would say they were pretty good at it. So now that I have one child I want to make sure that she is always happy. If it means skipping a meeting, so be it. If it means working long hours, so be it. If it means lugging her with me to make sure I stay on schedule to meet her needs then so be it. If you could see her face when she is with me, it would make you melt as well. She has this look of "This is my daddy of whom I am well pleased". I am pleased because he dances with me, he kisses me, he provides for me, he laughs with me, he comforts me, he listens to me and he talks to me. This is the look she gives me, and I pray that it transforms into those thoughts someday.
These past few days have shown me what a relationship between Daddy and daughter should be. It is my job to make sure this is a reality, and not just what I believe should happen. As the songwriter said, "Practice what you preach." I never want to be viewed as someone, especially by my own Princess C.J., as one who just "talks the talk".
As I prepare to unveil a revived me, a better me for myself and C.J., and a more focused me for the world, you all continue to pray because prayer changes things.
C.J., in life you will sometimes feel like you have no energy. Be strong enough to say I need to take some time for myself to revive yourself so you can operate at 100%. Take it from your Daddy, it is you that will be your weakest link and your biggest enemy toward your own progress if you allow yourself to be consumed in yourself. Every so often, do a personal spring cleaning! Love you much!
I have been talking a lot lately about her being the number one priority in all I do, and I want to explain why. When I became a parent I only knew parenting as what I was raised under. That is that you do whatever is necessary for your children to have what they need and to feel loved. When two parents can keep six children fairly happy I would say they were pretty good at it. So now that I have one child I want to make sure that she is always happy. If it means skipping a meeting, so be it. If it means working long hours, so be it. If it means lugging her with me to make sure I stay on schedule to meet her needs then so be it. If you could see her face when she is with me, it would make you melt as well. She has this look of "This is my daddy of whom I am well pleased". I am pleased because he dances with me, he kisses me, he provides for me, he laughs with me, he comforts me, he listens to me and he talks to me. This is the look she gives me, and I pray that it transforms into those thoughts someday.
These past few days have shown me what a relationship between Daddy and daughter should be. It is my job to make sure this is a reality, and not just what I believe should happen. As the songwriter said, "Practice what you preach." I never want to be viewed as someone, especially by my own Princess C.J., as one who just "talks the talk".
As I prepare to unveil a revived me, a better me for myself and C.J., and a more focused me for the world, you all continue to pray because prayer changes things.
C.J., in life you will sometimes feel like you have no energy. Be strong enough to say I need to take some time for myself to revive yourself so you can operate at 100%. Take it from your Daddy, it is you that will be your weakest link and your biggest enemy toward your own progress if you allow yourself to be consumed in yourself. Every so often, do a personal spring cleaning! Love you much!
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
What A Day!
The day finally came where I was with C.J. from sun up to sun down. As I laid in the bed watching the news she went through her normal morning ritual of stretching and sound making. The big difference was that today I was able to pick her up and be the first person she laid eyes on.
The joy of the day was that whatever we wanted to do we could. The result was relaxation. It was my pleasure to lay around with my my little lady. She is so thrilled when her daddy is around. I even put her favorite song on today just to see if she really likes it. Just so you know, when the beat to I Got A Feeling by Black Eyed Peas knocks, C.J. is busting a move. Now you may ask what does that song teach her? It does present some Jewish culture to her when they yell out, "Mazeltov", which means congratulations! So in keeping with my quest to embed education in most of what we do together, the song works.
Today was a great day simply because I was there for my girl. I had begun to feel a little down with not being around too much but today began a renewed feeling of joy just being in C.J.'s presence. This really means a lot to me because I watch first hand how young women deal in life when their father is not present. Many will not admit it, but they have issues with men. Now most will use the defense that they are strong, independent and goal oriented women. However I argue that they are lost because they do not know how to accept, grow with and even look for a well rounded supportive man in their lives. They seem to settle for junk because they have no role model or standard to gauge from. My quest is to be the man, the man that C.J. can have as the standard and that is why I want to be with her as much as I can. I will let her grow into her own, but she will always have her daddy when she needs him.
So today was a great day for me. Introspection still going on and C.J. and I spending quality time together. What more could a man ask for! You all remember to pray because prayer changes things.
C.J., Daddy is about to go pray for some people that have asked him to lift them up in prayer. Always remember to start and end your day with prayer. Praying for others is a great thing to do. It brings you great joy and makes a difference in the lives of others.
The joy of the day was that whatever we wanted to do we could. The result was relaxation. It was my pleasure to lay around with my my little lady. She is so thrilled when her daddy is around. I even put her favorite song on today just to see if she really likes it. Just so you know, when the beat to I Got A Feeling by Black Eyed Peas knocks, C.J. is busting a move. Now you may ask what does that song teach her? It does present some Jewish culture to her when they yell out, "Mazeltov", which means congratulations! So in keeping with my quest to embed education in most of what we do together, the song works.
Today was a great day simply because I was there for my girl. I had begun to feel a little down with not being around too much but today began a renewed feeling of joy just being in C.J.'s presence. This really means a lot to me because I watch first hand how young women deal in life when their father is not present. Many will not admit it, but they have issues with men. Now most will use the defense that they are strong, independent and goal oriented women. However I argue that they are lost because they do not know how to accept, grow with and even look for a well rounded supportive man in their lives. They seem to settle for junk because they have no role model or standard to gauge from. My quest is to be the man, the man that C.J. can have as the standard and that is why I want to be with her as much as I can. I will let her grow into her own, but she will always have her daddy when she needs him.
So today was a great day for me. Introspection still going on and C.J. and I spending quality time together. What more could a man ask for! You all remember to pray because prayer changes things.
C.J., Daddy is about to go pray for some people that have asked him to lift them up in prayer. Always remember to start and end your day with prayer. Praying for others is a great thing to do. It brings you great joy and makes a difference in the lives of others.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Days Off
Welp, the day is here. The day where I can chill with C.J. all day and do absolutely nothing. So the plan for the next three days is on. Now I will be fully engaged in my introspection but when that period is over it will be C.J. and Daddy.
I am excites because I have prayed for this day for a long time. So I am looking forward to hanging out to my little girl. I will read with her, take a walk with her. Spoil her a little bit.
I have to say that I am a little worried about the next four years today. New Jersey has a new governor and he directly effects my way of life. So today I pledge to C.J. that daddy will do all he can to ensure your well-being, your safety and your health. Real short today but its with a purpose.
I am excites because I have prayed for this day for a long time. So I am looking forward to hanging out to my little girl. I will read with her, take a walk with her. Spoil her a little bit.
I have to say that I am a little worried about the next four years today. New Jersey has a new governor and he directly effects my way of life. So today I pledge to C.J. that daddy will do all he can to ensure your well-being, your safety and your health. Real short today but its with a purpose.
Monday, November 2, 2009
Dancing Machine
Today was a normal day. I came home from work and was able to hang out with C.J. while Mommy ran some errands. You know I enjoy these moments because we have not been having the quality time that I would like lately, so we were due. Today it was about finding what keeps C.J.'s interest. Now myself being an educator, you know I want to expose my child to as much meaningful television as possible. I believe that what she watches and hears now at a monitored rate will mature her intellectually, more comfortably and at an impressively fast rate. Now the television you know is already trumped by the many hours of reading we do with her. Well rounded is what we are going after here.
So for recreation time I played some music for C.J. and I, and in keeping with my feel good theme for the week, selected Black Eyed Peas. I Got A Feeling immediately filled the room. Now I was going to dance around with C.J. as I normally do, but today my little girl turned into a Dancing Machine. Her head started nodding, her hands waving and her feet were moving all over the place. She was really excited and grooved to the sounds she heard.
A smile hurried over my face to see my baby having a great time with her Daddy. These are the moments that I desire to have with her as much as possible. These precious moments where she is happy and growing up right before my eyes. The more I am around her, the more I see both Mommy and Daddy in her. Her like of music...all Daddy, and her stern looks when she is not pleased with you...all Mommy. As far as traits go she will have an interesting mix.
Day One of Operation Introspection was great! I saw a rainbow on my way to work. That was God beginning to speak to me and then some calls shaping my priorities in life came my way. I thank God for revelation! Day 2 is coming. C.J. is at the top of the list...if it doesn't help me to help her, then it has to go!
As for now, you all remember to pray because prayer changes things!
So for recreation time I played some music for C.J. and I, and in keeping with my feel good theme for the week, selected Black Eyed Peas. I Got A Feeling immediately filled the room. Now I was going to dance around with C.J. as I normally do, but today my little girl turned into a Dancing Machine. Her head started nodding, her hands waving and her feet were moving all over the place. She was really excited and grooved to the sounds she heard.
A smile hurried over my face to see my baby having a great time with her Daddy. These are the moments that I desire to have with her as much as possible. These precious moments where she is happy and growing up right before my eyes. The more I am around her, the more I see both Mommy and Daddy in her. Her like of music...all Daddy, and her stern looks when she is not pleased with you...all Mommy. As far as traits go she will have an interesting mix.
Day One of Operation Introspection was great! I saw a rainbow on my way to work. That was God beginning to speak to me and then some calls shaping my priorities in life came my way. I thank God for revelation! Day 2 is coming. C.J. is at the top of the list...if it doesn't help me to help her, then it has to go!
As for now, you all remember to pray because prayer changes things!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
My Little trooper
The day that no parent wants to deal with is the day their baby seems to be ill but can not articulate it to you. That was C.J. today. She slept, she was fidgety, she was cranky and then she cried her little self to sleep. I will tell you it is the most helpless I had ever felt in life not being able to quickly decipher what the problem was.
At one pint during the night I held her and she was comfortable enough to fall asleep in my arms. The problem was that it was around bath time and I knew she would have to be awaken. The daddy in me exuded from me quickly and I suggested to Shatema that she let her sleep a little longer. Mommy said that will not happen and she proceeded to give her a bath so she could get her to bed. I wanted to stop her but mother knows best.
I will say this feeling helpless is something I do not want to become familiar with. I mean C.J. was fighting through whatever but daddy wanted to be the one to ease any pain or discomfort she was going through. I will have you know the thing that kept her quiet the most today was football. Which mommy could not believe but daddy just smiled.
Hopefully she will sleep through the night and feel a little more like herself tomorrow. If not daddy will be there to comfort her when she beckons him. As Michael Jackson said, "Just call my name and I'll be there, I'll be there to protect you too C.J." As I leave you as always, remember to pray because prayer changes things.
P.S. feel better C.J.!!!!
At one pint during the night I held her and she was comfortable enough to fall asleep in my arms. The problem was that it was around bath time and I knew she would have to be awaken. The daddy in me exuded from me quickly and I suggested to Shatema that she let her sleep a little longer. Mommy said that will not happen and she proceeded to give her a bath so she could get her to bed. I wanted to stop her but mother knows best.
I will say this feeling helpless is something I do not want to become familiar with. I mean C.J. was fighting through whatever but daddy wanted to be the one to ease any pain or discomfort she was going through. I will have you know the thing that kept her quiet the most today was football. Which mommy could not believe but daddy just smiled.
Hopefully she will sleep through the night and feel a little more like herself tomorrow. If not daddy will be there to comfort her when she beckons him. As Michael Jackson said, "Just call my name and I'll be there, I'll be there to protect you too C.J." As I leave you as always, remember to pray because prayer changes things.
P.S. feel better C.J.!!!!
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