So today C.J. and Mommy were home together. I was late to work because I was envious of their sound sleeping as I prepared myself to depart. I do not even think they heard me pray with them or kiss them on the forehead before I left. I wanted so badly to stay in the bed, but I knew I had to get down to work.
I did not get to call home much today. when I did everything was cool. I had to stay late because I arrived late. Once I did I heard a whole lot of noise. I asked Mommy, "Do you have another child there with you?" She told me no, so I said, "Well whose child is that making all that noise?" She assured me that it was my child making all the noise. She sounded like she was having loads of fun.
One thing I love about my child is that she enjoys life. She is always smiling, laughing, willing to play, and always makes a lot of noise...just like her Daddy. It is cute now but I wonder if it will remain that way?
As C.J. slept I noticed she had her thumb in her mouth, so I decided to take it out. Instantly she put it back in. So I took it out again and she repeated the same. After about a minute of this I could only laugh and leave her alone. I told Mommy she would have an overbite before having teeth, hopefully not. We still have not made it to Rita's and that means we have not been taking our walk. We have to get back on track soon.
So the loud baby is mine. She gets it honestly. Her daddy has benefited from being loud and maybe one she will. The one thing we do not do is shuck and jive. So now I am handling some business while she sleeps. You all continue to pray, as I always remind you, prayer changes things, people, and situations.
This blog will chronicle the journey between a new father and his daughter. It will highlight the ups and the downs, and all the lessons learned. It is my prayer that "C.J. and Me" will be an inspiration to all that the bond between father and daughter can be strong. It will also show the world that there are REAL men who help develop stellar women who will go on and shake up the world. Enjoy the journey and look daily to see what new and exciting things are going on in our lives!
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Silent Rides: CJ and The Chauffer
Well today I had a very unusual experience. It felt as if I were a taxi driver for C.J. Even though Mommy is on vacation we thought it would be best for C.J. to still go to the baby-sitter. This means that Daddy and C.J. both have to get up and get out by 6:30am. Just so you know that has not happened yet. Maybe on Thursday (C.J. will be home tomorrow) we will get it together.
Today C.J. began her bottle in the house and finished off in the car. I did not hear a peep from her. She sat back there as if she were a real Princess and I was her chauffeur. I got out, opened the door for her, and carried her up the stairs. Then I went off to work. The strange thing is that when I came to pick her up today, I found her the same way I left her, asleep. So I carried her out of the house, placed her in the car, shut the door, and departed to our destination. Usually you would hear C.J. shifting or moving about. Today on the ride home I was again the chauffeur and heard nothing.
Though weird I can not say that the silence was bad. It sure beats her whining and shrieking. She had another good day at the sitter and once she came home she was more calm than usual. Even though I do not like being the chauffer. I will serve with gladness because there will come a day she will be embarrassed to be caught riding with her Dad! A good embarrassment though.
So another day is come and gone and the night is here. Time to say our prayers and head to bed soon. When you pray be sure to pray for others! It is a fact that prayer changes things, people and situations.
NOTE TO C.J.: Prayer is essential to life. When someone asks you to pray for them or you offer to pray for someone be sure to follow through. Praying for others is a good thing because others will pray for you!
Today C.J. began her bottle in the house and finished off in the car. I did not hear a peep from her. She sat back there as if she were a real Princess and I was her chauffeur. I got out, opened the door for her, and carried her up the stairs. Then I went off to work. The strange thing is that when I came to pick her up today, I found her the same way I left her, asleep. So I carried her out of the house, placed her in the car, shut the door, and departed to our destination. Usually you would hear C.J. shifting or moving about. Today on the ride home I was again the chauffeur and heard nothing.
Though weird I can not say that the silence was bad. It sure beats her whining and shrieking. She had another good day at the sitter and once she came home she was more calm than usual. Even though I do not like being the chauffer. I will serve with gladness because there will come a day she will be embarrassed to be caught riding with her Dad! A good embarrassment though.
So another day is come and gone and the night is here. Time to say our prayers and head to bed soon. When you pray be sure to pray for others! It is a fact that prayer changes things, people and situations.
NOTE TO C.J.: Prayer is essential to life. When someone asks you to pray for them or you offer to pray for someone be sure to follow through. Praying for others is a good thing because others will pray for you!
Monday, April 5, 2010
Duke vs. Butler
Good evening folks. Today is a big day for Daddy and C.J. The Duke University Blue Devils are playing for the National Championship. One day C.J. might play and get Daddy his trip to the White House. Unless he is a resident, that is. Today was weird. Daddy and C.J. had to get up and out, but Mommy was able to go back to sleep. On the ride to the sitter, C.J. was great. I did not hear one peep from her.
When I arrived to pick her up today, C.J. was not interested in leaving. She was outside enjoying the weather, and was fascinated by the train roaring by. After calling her about twice, she looked and finally I received the smile I am accustomed to getting when I pick her up. I told C.J. she could stay and I would come by to get her tomorrow. She seemed to be fine with that, as well as her sitter and her family. They all say they would be happy to keep C.J. I really like that they genuinely love C.J.
So on the way home, Daddy tried calling Mommy. He felt it was weird for Mommy not to have called to check on C.J. all day long. When she did not pick up for him, he became a little worried. When we arrived home, we both found out that she had locked herself out of the house while doing laundry. So she had to hang out in the laundry room for four hours, waiting for us to come home. C.J. and Daddy were relieved to know she was OK. C.J. will not get to see the game tonight. She is sleeping peacefully. Daddy and C.J. postponed their walk to Rita's since Mommy was not ready, and plan to go tomorrow. We will also see how well it goes with Daddy not bothering Mommy in the morning.
Be sure to keep praying. In your prayers include prayers for this hurting world. We know that prayer will change things, people, and situations.
When I arrived to pick her up today, C.J. was not interested in leaving. She was outside enjoying the weather, and was fascinated by the train roaring by. After calling her about twice, she looked and finally I received the smile I am accustomed to getting when I pick her up. I told C.J. she could stay and I would come by to get her tomorrow. She seemed to be fine with that, as well as her sitter and her family. They all say they would be happy to keep C.J. I really like that they genuinely love C.J.
So on the way home, Daddy tried calling Mommy. He felt it was weird for Mommy not to have called to check on C.J. all day long. When she did not pick up for him, he became a little worried. When we arrived home, we both found out that she had locked herself out of the house while doing laundry. So she had to hang out in the laundry room for four hours, waiting for us to come home. C.J. and Daddy were relieved to know she was OK. C.J. will not get to see the game tonight. She is sleeping peacefully. Daddy and C.J. postponed their walk to Rita's since Mommy was not ready, and plan to go tomorrow. We will also see how well it goes with Daddy not bothering Mommy in the morning.
Be sure to keep praying. In your prayers include prayers for this hurting world. We know that prayer will change things, people, and situations.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Resurrection Day 2010
So many people sent Daddy texts today saying, "Happy Easter". The fact of the matter is that Easter does not exist to Daddy. On this day we celebrate the Resurrection and that alone. Ok, Daddy did have a fit today because he did not have one jelly bean. (That was until we arrived home, rested up a bit. Then Mommy found one inside of a basket for C.J.) Folks, do not get me wrong, I understand all the hooplah that goes on with this day and will buy a basket, boil an egg, and take a bunny pic. However I know, and state it first, that Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior rose from the dead. It is that purpose that C.J. will understand long before she plays with peeps and chocolate candies.
Today, instead of our usual Sunday feast, we decided to go out as a family...just the three of us. We enjoyed a great meal and C.J. even tasted some bread. She allowed us not only to enjoy our meal, but she let us get dessert, too. Two women were fascinated with her as she made her usual noise. C.J. was fascinated by one of the women's afro, which I might add was tight. C.J. would look over and smile as the woman smiled and waved at her. It was nice just to sit and chill with my ladies. We tried all weekend to do so and we were finally successful today!
C.J. and her cousins all matched today. Pop wanted them to wear the outfits he brought them and purple was the color of the day. You had to see C.J. rocking her lily white hat, as she looked just like a church lady. She even had her purple shades on to accent the dress fully.
So the day is gone and the night is upon us. C.J. is bathed and being read to. Daddy is relaxing and watching a little television. I urge you to take this newness that comes along with the resurrection and apply it to every aspect of your life. Let God dwell within and clean you up to be sparkling clean. So continue to pray that God moves in your life. I declare to you today that prayer changes things, people, and situations!
Today, instead of our usual Sunday feast, we decided to go out as a family...just the three of us. We enjoyed a great meal and C.J. even tasted some bread. She allowed us not only to enjoy our meal, but she let us get dessert, too. Two women were fascinated with her as she made her usual noise. C.J. was fascinated by one of the women's afro, which I might add was tight. C.J. would look over and smile as the woman smiled and waved at her. It was nice just to sit and chill with my ladies. We tried all weekend to do so and we were finally successful today!
C.J. and her cousins all matched today. Pop wanted them to wear the outfits he brought them and purple was the color of the day. You had to see C.J. rocking her lily white hat, as she looked just like a church lady. She even had her purple shades on to accent the dress fully.
So the day is gone and the night is upon us. C.J. is bathed and being read to. Daddy is relaxing and watching a little television. I urge you to take this newness that comes along with the resurrection and apply it to every aspect of your life. Let God dwell within and clean you up to be sparkling clean. So continue to pray that God moves in your life. I declare to you today that prayer changes things, people, and situations!
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Take Two!
Just like in the movies, sometimes in life, you wish you could have a take two. A chance to run the play over. You saw what the end result was and now you want to alter your decision. Well today we were granted with another day's journey and we made the best of it. You can never have yesterday back so a take two was not ever going to come our way. So we just remembered best what we could and incorporated it into our brand new day.
C.J. was an entirely different person today. Her teeth were still a bother to her but she did not make too much fuss out in public. We needed to start the day early because we did not get anything done yesterday at all. So we left the house before 11am and proceeded to go from stop, to stop, to stop, to stop. We were able to get everything we needed, and had a lot of time to spare.
C.J. got to spend the afternoon with her grandparents as we had some food off the grill. We had to contend with the dogs but we were able to make it through. Now because C.J. took a nap earlier today she is very fussy right now. I even brought her out of the crib to see some of the basketball game with me. I put her back in the crib but she will not go to sleep.
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I let C.J. type the line above. You see the gibberish she produced. Well I am getting tired and my Princess is actually fading. You all continue to pray for we know prayer changes things, people, and situations!
NOTE TO C.J.: I think C.J. stayed up because you wanted to see the Duke game. You should have told your Mommy that, plus you did not need to whine.
C.J. was an entirely different person today. Her teeth were still a bother to her but she did not make too much fuss out in public. We needed to start the day early because we did not get anything done yesterday at all. So we left the house before 11am and proceeded to go from stop, to stop, to stop, to stop. We were able to get everything we needed, and had a lot of time to spare.
C.J. got to spend the afternoon with her grandparents as we had some food off the grill. We had to contend with the dogs but we were able to make it through. Now because C.J. took a nap earlier today she is very fussy right now. I even brought her out of the crib to see some of the basketball game with me. I put her back in the crib but she will not go to sleep.
lpu-89 jnj hil mni9by89 by 7by7o n
I let C.J. type the line above. You see the gibberish she produced. Well I am getting tired and my Princess is actually fading. You all continue to pray for we know prayer changes things, people, and situations!
NOTE TO C.J.: I think C.J. stayed up because you wanted to see the Duke game. You should have told your Mommy that, plus you did not need to whine.
Friday, April 2, 2010
CJ's FIT!!!
OK, so it is 12:32am and I am just getting in and settled. I spent the night receiving the word again and I am all the more blessed by it. Their is just something about being fed the word of God! Mommy and CJ did not go because we were concerned about how she would act so late in a different setting, and concerned we should be after this morning.
This morning their was no alarm, we just slept until the bed became uncomfortable. Well really until CJ woke up. We hung around the house until we decided to go to brunch and then to the movies. After the movies we were going to pick up some things then come home to chill. Well Ms. CJ had other plans. We were all set to eat our meal at IHOP when she began to cry. Not a problem it was about time for her to eat so Mommy prepared a bottle for her. She took the bottle drank some but them began to get lazy and drop it. Daddy would give it back to her and she would drop it again. Daddy then scolded her a little and told her to stop being lazy. After a few times of this CJ began to get fussy, so Daddy took her out of the carrier. The food came and she began to cry louder and louder, so much so that Mommy took her out of the restaurant. Daddy kept eating and asked to have Mommy's food packed up.
Once we got in the car CJ cried the entire ride home. We thought she may have a fever because her cheeks were red and her teeth have finally broke skin. When we checked she was normal. Once we took her clothes off down to her onezie Daddy took her and held her. She stopped crying. He then sat down with her and played a video game. CJ was like a different person. she sat still the entire time Daddy had her. Mommy nor Daddy could not believe it. Later in the day Mommy said she had forgiven her. Daddy said he did not. He believes she knew what she did, lol. Today was the first time CJ had altered a day. All Daddy wanted to do was hit the movies and get the things we needed on Friday so we could rest on Saturday. Instead we have to get up in the morning to fight the crowds in the stores.
So after a while Mommy and CJ took what was suppose to be a nap but ended up being a two and a half hour sleep session. Daddy slept for about a half. If it was a fit, she better not ever do it again.
So another day had come and gone and please continue to pray. We know prayer changes things, people, and situations.
This morning their was no alarm, we just slept until the bed became uncomfortable. Well really until CJ woke up. We hung around the house until we decided to go to brunch and then to the movies. After the movies we were going to pick up some things then come home to chill. Well Ms. CJ had other plans. We were all set to eat our meal at IHOP when she began to cry. Not a problem it was about time for her to eat so Mommy prepared a bottle for her. She took the bottle drank some but them began to get lazy and drop it. Daddy would give it back to her and she would drop it again. Daddy then scolded her a little and told her to stop being lazy. After a few times of this CJ began to get fussy, so Daddy took her out of the carrier. The food came and she began to cry louder and louder, so much so that Mommy took her out of the restaurant. Daddy kept eating and asked to have Mommy's food packed up.
Once we got in the car CJ cried the entire ride home. We thought she may have a fever because her cheeks were red and her teeth have finally broke skin. When we checked she was normal. Once we took her clothes off down to her onezie Daddy took her and held her. She stopped crying. He then sat down with her and played a video game. CJ was like a different person. she sat still the entire time Daddy had her. Mommy nor Daddy could not believe it. Later in the day Mommy said she had forgiven her. Daddy said he did not. He believes she knew what she did, lol. Today was the first time CJ had altered a day. All Daddy wanted to do was hit the movies and get the things we needed on Friday so we could rest on Saturday. Instead we have to get up in the morning to fight the crowds in the stores.
So after a while Mommy and CJ took what was suppose to be a nap but ended up being a two and a half hour sleep session. Daddy slept for about a half. If it was a fit, she better not ever do it again.
So another day had come and gone and please continue to pray. We know prayer changes things, people, and situations.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Family's First Communion
So what it is 12:12am and I am just getting in. The word last night was straight FIRE! "Remember". CJ as usual was loud in church, having a conversation with her friend Jayla. The highlight of the night along with the word of course was CJ blowing her spit-up on my preaching robe. Now it has to be cleaned and I will kindly take that right from her bank account.
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